Bday parties

Gold Member Joined: May 04 2006 Posts: 1720

my son is turning 3 in two weeks or so, and I am not sure if I should make him a party at home, he will have something in school tho. im not sure that he really needs a party, maybe just familly. what do you think?
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Gold Member Joined: Oct 17 2006 Posts: 1006

Are you cutting his hair? I find that an upsherin is not for the kid's enjoyment, but for everyone else's. I do plan on making an upsherin for my boys anyway. To answer the question, no he does not need it, and you definitely do not need to invite classmates to anything you make at home.
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Gold Member Joined: May 04 2006 Posts: 1720

we are cutting his hair but it wont be a party, my hubby is sephardic they do not follow this. but we grew his hair anyway, so we will cut it, just no party.

Silver Member Joined: Jun 12 2006 Posts: 963

I find that a bithday is a time to just give this child his/her special attention. we usually buy some balloons for the birthday girl/boy and have a supper this child loves, or his/her favorite treat.... no need to invite anyone... just you, your dh, and siblings (if any).....

Posted: Mon, Nov 13 2006, 4:31 pm Post subject: re: Bday parties

I would go with family party, he is little, for him it will be the PARTY and you and your family will enjoy each other, like only family can.

Platinum Member Joined: Jan 01 2006 Posts: 48155

I never made parties at home. School does such a good job of it!