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asmileaday
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 Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:18 pm
So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.
Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.
What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks
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amother
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Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:49 pm
I believe the laws of yichud and negia apply. Only immediate female family members (mother, grandmother, sister, [wife, daughter not applicable at this time]) can touch him.
He is under Bar Mitzvah and he should not touch them or listen to their singing because of chinuch.
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Leahh
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Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:50 pm
| asmileaday wrote: | So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.
Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.
What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks |
As far as I remember from school once a boy turns 9 all halachos of yichud and neggia apply with any girl over bas mitzvah.
Maybe ask your rav.
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ra_mom
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Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:52 pm
| asmileaday wrote: | So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.
Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.
What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks |
Halachos of Yichud and Negiya now apply with any girl over 3.
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greenfire
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Sun, Mar 01 2015, 8:05 am
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when you make an issue of these 'chumras' you put thoughts into a child's mind that would never otherwise be there ...
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mommy3b2c
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Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:06 am
| ra_mom wrote: | | Halachos of Yichud and Negiya now apply with any girl over 3. |
This is definitely not true. No halachos apply between two children.
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asmileaday
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Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:28 am
| greenfire wrote: | | when you make an issue of these 'chumras' you put thoughts into a child's mind that would never otherwise be there ... |
Exactly. Question is are they chumros or halachos? According to previous posters these are halachos.
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asmileaday
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Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:30 am
| mommy2b2c wrote: | | This is definitely not true. No halachos apply between two children. |
Are you referring to the girl over 3? Or the boy over 9? Or both?
Does anyone have a link to trustworthy online site that has the halachos? I've learned them in school but can't remember any of it....
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