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amother
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 Sun, Aug 02 2015, 9:48 am
I was shocked when my friend asked me what we are doing for Shabbos. I answered I am going to xyz. She asked me if she can join with her family. I thought it was total chutzpah. What do you think? She also asked how many rooms my hosts has. 
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Rutabaga
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 9:59 am
That is definitely chutzpah.
What did you respond?
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youngishbear
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 10:01 am
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Someone please remind me the details... but the gemarah has something unflattering to say about guests who invite guests...
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amother
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 10:02 am
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I told them I don't feel comfortable to ask my host to have you. It's not my home.
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watergirl
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 10:44 am
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I've seen mentioned here before that people often seem to view summer homes as semi public property. Like, my friend has a bungalow. Lets seeif we can go for a shobbos, even though an invite hasnt been extended. Im not part of the summer home scene so I dont know really. Just an imamother observation.
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amother
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 11:30 am
| watergirl wrote: | | I've seen mentioned here before that people often seem to view summer homes as semi public property. Like, my friend has a bungalow. Lets seeif we can go for a shobbos, even though an invite hasnt been extended. Im not part of the summer home scene so I dont know really. Just an imamother observation. |
It is not just summer homes. There are boundary issues.
It is annoying that people try to push their way in. My brother owns a boat and many people state they want to take their families out and I should arrange it.
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penguin
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 6:25 pm
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I saw a guest towel that reads "Guests of guests may not bring guests."
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zaq
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 10:10 pm
| youngishbear wrote: | | Someone please remind me the details... but the gemarah has something unflattering to say about guests who invite guests... |
Ein oreach machnis oreach.
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youngishbear
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Sun, Aug 02 2015, 10:14 pm
| zaq wrote: | | Ein oreach machnis oreach. |
That, too. But I vaguely remember a pretty negative expression, something more dramatic than what you quoted.
Oh, well. Maybe my brain cells will wake up eventually.
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