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cee1992




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 7:28 pm
Has anyone developed a point reward system? If so, how did you do it with all kids? My step children are 10, 9, and 3. Any suggestions on how to do points and what they have to do to earn them would be awesome. Thanks!
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imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 8:29 pm
PM me if you like. I'll share.
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anonymrs




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 9:46 pm
imasinger, can you post here? I'm interested to hear too!
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imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 9:53 pm
I'll pm you.
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doctorima




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 10:15 pm
Please PM me as well, if you don't mind - thanks!
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bobeli




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 04 2015, 11:31 pm
me too!
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5*Mom




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Nov 05 2015, 2:32 am
A word of caution about point systems: for some children they may have the opposite effect than the one you're going for. Some children find it anxiety provoking (what do I have to do to get a point? Is she gonna remember to give me a point? Am I about to lose a point?) and some others feel micromanaged and become resentful and even oppositional. Yes, even with a well designed and structured professional program. I would proceed with caution.
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