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amother
Lavender
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Tue, Apr 12 2016, 5:11 pm
Because of the recent threads that have mentioned this.
Have you ever locked yourself in your room to take a break while your kids needed you [they weren't doing anything dangerous, but were kvetchy or wanted attention]? Do you do it on a regular basis? How long? Where is the line between taking a quick breather and neglecting your children?
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ra_mom
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Tue, Apr 12 2016, 5:26 pm
I've given myself time outs if child is having a tantrum that is going on for half an hour / they are not calming down no matter what and I feel like I'm about to lose my cool at said child.
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PassionFruit
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Tue, Apr 12 2016, 5:35 pm
I do. Sometimes if I tell my kids I need to nurse in my room, or I stay in the bathroom a few extra minutes to read. Such is the life of a busy mom. As long as no one is really hurting/doing something dangerous, I think it is ok to let the kids fend for themselves for a few minutes, especially if you set them up with an activity beforehand.
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lfab
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Wed, Apr 13 2016, 1:45 pm
Yeah, I have to admit that I have. Not often, and not for long (5 minutes max) but sometimes Mommy just needs a bit of space to breathe. I'll tell them I need to go change, or go to the bathroom and then stay in a few extra minutes. I wouldn't do it if I thought they weren't safe, and if I have an infant at the time I take them into the room with me so the others don't accidentally hurt them. Taking 5 minutes to breath and calm down is not neglectful. I think it crosses the line when a child really needs something (not just whiny or needing attention) and a parent ignores them for an extended period of time. I try to teach my children that parents are people too and have needs just like children do. And sometimes a parent needs to temporarily put their own needs first in order to be able to properly take care of their children.
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pointyshoes
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Wed, Apr 13 2016, 2:45 pm
Sometimes I pretend I'm constipated to sit on the toilet a bit longer
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amother
Turquoise
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Wed, Apr 13 2016, 3:32 pm
I don't leave young children alone to play unsupervised, but I will delay taking a child out of a crib in order to go to the bathroom in peace.
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