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amother
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 Sun, Aug 07 2016, 9:37 pm
| amother wrote: |
Eta in response to a comment above many people hold that eating in shiurim is not relevant for 9 Av, only YK, so I wouldn't go there because it seems very nitpicky. |
I'm curious if this approach helps people get used to fasting, though. You're eating, but very minimally, and IME you don't feel great doing it.
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amother
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Sun, Aug 07 2016, 9:47 pm
| amother wrote: | | I'm curious if this approach helps people get used to fasting, though. You're eating, but very minimally, and IME you don't feel great doing it. |
In my experience eating in shiurim is even harder than fasting. because I was pregnant at the time I *had* to have a taste every 9 minutes. (that was the psak). I was aware of every 9 minutes of the that day. It did very little to help me.
Really it's her problem. And if you back off now completely but then explain in 8 weeks how much more important Yom Kippur is really I think that would be the best way to go. Better to eat on 9 Av and fast on yk than to fast 9 Av , get really annoyed about it, add not do yk.
And you can't "make up" a shhhitta of doing shiurim so that you get used to fasting. Halacha does not work like that
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amother
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debsey
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Mon, Aug 15 2016, 2:27 pm
| amother wrote: | | How did it go? |
I've been wondering too.......
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