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Four yr old boy being a bride



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amother
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Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:24 pm
Would you let? He is a reall boy playing with cars and doesn't touch dolls?
Talking about a chassiduch child
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zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:27 pm
You don't think his pals will give him a hard time?
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FranticFrummie




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:30 pm
Go check out the "Modern Family" thread.

There are a million boy costumes out there. Why davka a female one?
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Iymnok




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:34 pm
My brother was at age 10. My mother made him wear normal pants and sneakers under the dress.
Is that what he wants?
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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:34 pm
I would for a 2-3 year old. After that I would find a more boyish costume.
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octopus




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:36 pm
Is that what the kid wants? Or is that what you want? Because if you want it, I would think that you may have issues.
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amother
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Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:40 pm
OP here the kid wants it. That is what I am worried about will the kids make fun of it
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Iymnok




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:41 pm
Ask him why he wants it.
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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:43 pm
If he really wants then let him wear it the first night and by day something else.
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bigsis144




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Feb 16 2017, 3:47 pm
If the boy CAME UP WITH THE IDEA HIMSELF and 100% wanted to, I'd be okay with it.

If the idea came from you and you're pressuring him into it (this includes dressing up a boy who is too young to have a choice as to what you dress him in), then absolutely NOT.

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And this is only because you're suggesting something "innocent" like a bride. If a boy chooses to dress in non-s-xualized drag (like a bride or mommy, or wearing a bonnet and hoop skirt or something), I'm okay with it.

I feel much more uneasy when boys dress up as female cheerleaders (hey, they can technically show more bare leg than frum girls can) or something like that. A non-frum male cousin of mine once wore a red sequined dress and high heels for Purim, and I did my best to act neutral and polite and not visibly uncomfortable.
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