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Do you tell guests that other guests will be joining also?



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amother
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Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:46 pm
If you have sleep over guest for yom tov do you inform them that other guests will be sleeping over also?

I am having two older single men coming and cant decide if I should say anything or not.
One of them I had already for a shabbos but never had the other one and dont really know him very well.
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avocado7




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:51 pm
Why not
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zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:53 pm
Certainly. Why wouldn't I? I like to know if I'm going to have to cope with a crowd when visiting friends, why would I not extend the same consideration to my own guests?
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Notsobusy




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:53 pm
Always. Not everyone enjoys being put with strangers. Or they may even know each other and dislike each other.
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cm




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:56 pm
Sleepover? Yes.

For a meal only? Usually, but depends on the circumstances.
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cnc




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 7:59 pm
Yes- always.
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anonymrs




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 8:07 pm
I do.
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amother
Jetblack


 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 8:09 pm
If I'm your guest, please tell me advance.
I will appreciate it. Thanks.


Last edited by amother on Thu, Jan 09 2020, 3:06 pm; edited 1 time in total
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Bsimcha




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 8:12 pm
I think it's usually better to inform others. Just my 2 cents
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DrMom




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 8:38 pm
It sounds like you are contemplating deliberately withholding such information. Why?

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gdgirl




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 8:38 pm
I like everyone to be well informed prior so that there are no surprises.
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agreer




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 9:32 pm
Yes, I do.
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MagentaYenta




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 9:41 pm
Why wouldn't you?
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momofqts




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 10:51 pm
Yes I do.
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amother
Olive


 

Post Sat, Apr 15 2017, 11:47 pm
If you don't expect them to share a bedroom, why would you need to mention it?

I can't remember my hosts ever informing me or checking with me in advance if their other guests met my approval.
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