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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 9:34 am
I'm an Orthodox Torah Jew.
May I stay in bed now? I mean... It's before Shabbos. I am totally not ready yet.
Can I stay vegging in bed? If you know if a heter, What's the heter based on? I dont mind if its from a rav that is meikil.
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amother




Blonde


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 9:36 am
You don't need a heter for that! As long as you have somebody to make sure that u can light candles by the Zman. Then do whatever you need for your wellbeing.
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 9:41 am
amother wrote:
You don't need a heter for that!

Come on!! You are underestimating my level of frumkeit. Laughing
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amother




Sienna


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:07 am
Chill buy take out and your good. Watch a movie its cheaper than going to Florida! Or is it?
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:10 am
amother wrote:
Chill buy take out and your good. Watch a movie its cheaper than going to Florida! Or is it?

Yes it's cheaper.
What about the laundry etc? Do they have take out laundry?
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SixOfWands









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:16 am
amother wrote:
I'm an Orthodox Torah Jew.
May I stay in bed now? I mean... It's before Shabbos. I am totally not ready yet.
Can I stay vegging in bed? If you know if a heter, What's the heter based on? I dont mind if its from a rav that is meikil.


Is your bed located on a plane, train or automobile?

Is it in Saudi Arabia?

Will your bed be graduating from college with honors and, if so, is it attending the graduation? Did it ensure that the bathroom doesn't flush automatically?

Did it vote for Trump? Does it regret it?

Does your bed believe in conspiracy theories? Does it think that Clinton murdered Seth Rich? Is it the Bed That Shot Liberty Valance?

And most importantly, do you have the phone number of a takeout place that delivers.

Shabbat shalom.
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amother




Sienna


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:18 am
amother wrote:
Yes it's cheaper.
What about the laundry etc? Do they have take out laundry?

Yes there are places that do laundry services like Breeze in Lakewood!
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:18 am
SixOfWands wrote:
Is your bed located on a plane, train or automobile?

Is it in Saudi Arabia?

Will your bed be graduating from college with honors and, if so, is it attending the graduation? Did it ensure that the bathroom doesn't flush automatically?

Did it vote for Trump? Does it regret it?

Does your bed believe in conspiracy theories? Does it think that Clinton murdered Seth Rich? Is it the Bed That Shot Liberty Valance?

And most importantly, do you have the phone number of a takeout place that delivers.

Shabbat shalom.


That's a girl!!! And youre saying your not a rabbi not a rabba??
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amother




Sienna


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:20 am
SixOfWands wrote:
Is your bed located on a plane, train or automobile?

Is it in Saudi Arabia?

Will your bed be graduating from college with honors and, if so, is it attending the graduation? Did it ensure that the bathroom doesn't flush automatically?

Did it vote for Trump? Does it regret it?

Does your bed believe in conspiracy theories? Does it think that Clinton murdered Seth Rich? Is it the Bed That Shot Liberty Valance?

And most importantly, do you have the phone number of a takeout place that delivers.

Shabbat shalom.

Six of wands!!! You made me laugh for the first time today! Love love love it!
I am sure Mrs. Copper seriously needs a chill!
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amother




Silver


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:22 am
Ah, but this is the wrong question. Technically, there is no issue staying in bed that would possibly require a heter. But staying in bed will lead to stuff not getting done. So now we must ask, is it permissible to serve only sandwiches and cereal for Shabbos? And if not, does that make staying in bed today a grama? Or a psik reisha?
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:23 am
amother wrote:
Yes there are places that do laundry services like Breeze in Lakewood!

Like, there is a seperate bin for each size? And its self serve? Socks you take With a ladle and shells With a fork?
Or do they serve you as in a regular take out;
2 shells to stay or to go?
4 tights which size?
Shirts with spray starch or wrinkle free?
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:26 am
amother wrote:
Ah, but this is the wrong question. Technically, there is no issue staying in bed that would possibly require a heter. But staying in bed will lead to stuff not getting done. So now we must ask, is it permissible to serve only sandwiches and cereal for Shabbos? And if not, does that make staying in bed today a grama? Or a psik reisha?

I'm afraid that I'm now mekayim a mitzvah shezman grama. I can only do it now. Do I have to stop? Or can I be meikil?
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imasinger









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:39 am
R. Imasinger paskens it is permissible if:

1. Your family has a copy of Peanut Butter and Jelly for Shabbos.

2. You have the kavana that your bed is a making kedusha. And you don't mind cracker crumbs.

3. It is hot enough outside to warm your food
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:43 am
imasinger wrote:
R. Imasinger paskens it is permissible if:

1. Your family has a copy of Peanut Butter and Jelly for Shabbos.

2. You have the kavana that your bed is a making kedusha. And you don't mind cracker crumbs.

3. It is hot enough outside to warm your food

1. They will be more than happy to go to the grocery and get everything.
2.with this I struggle. I need guidance on how to not feel like a crazy lazy sloby irresponsible immature failure of a human.
3. That's up to Hashem. Praying...
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grace413









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 10:57 am
I'm more meikel than the well respected Imasinger so I'll give you a heter with no conditions.

Enjoy.
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 11:07 am
grace413 wrote:
I'm more meikel than the well respected Imasinger so I'll give you a heter with no conditions.

Enjoy.

Thanks!
For how long? I like clarity.
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imasoftov









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 11:33 am
Vegging is only permitted if one checks for bedbugs with a light tray.
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amother




Copper


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 11:38 am
imasoftov wrote:
Vegging is only permitted if one checks for bedbugs with a light tray.

Ok now that got me out of bed!! Thanks!
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enneamom









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 12:01 pm
amother wrote:
1. They will be more than happy to go to the grocery and get everything.
2.with this I struggle. I need guidance on how to not feel like a crazy lazy sloby irresponsible immature failure of a human.
3. That's up to Hashem. Praying...

Please stop now! It's hot enough already!

Wow, you sure know how to daven!
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grace413









  


Post  Fri, May 19 2017, 2:33 pm
amother wrote:
Thanks!
For how long? I like clarity.


Until 10 minutes before candle lighting time.
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