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-> Manners & Etiquette
Aidelmom
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:06 am
It could be this is self understood but personally I am unsure. If I'm impressed by an imamothers post(s) and I want to let her know that she is aprreciated/give her a compliment, is it appropriate to pm her? I doubt that its appropriate to comment on the thread itself being that its quite public and its kind of hijacking the thread especially if I wnt to comment on the general trend.. OTOH would you be annoyed to get such a pm? Is it better just to keep quiet?
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StrongIma
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:08 am
I've also wondered the same thing.
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shalhevet
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:39 am
It is really nice to get such pms. I have both received and sent them. I send them when I really admire the post. Sometimes I have put a lot of time/effort into a post and/or said something that I know is controversial. So it just feels good that someone is saying they appreciate what you write.
Everyone likes compliments, no?
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Ima'la
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:43 am
Sure! Why would anyone mind a compliment? How nice of you to express appreciation!
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Aidelmom
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:09 am
Thanks, I haven't done it yet though! Ok everybody start working on it
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zufriedene
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:16 am
I love to receive pm's complimenting, and also do send pms, I love private attention.
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ClaRivka
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:34 am
shalhevet wrote: | It is really nice to get such pms. I have both received and sent them. I send them when I really admire the post. Sometimes I have put a lot of time/effort into a post and/or said something that I know is controversial. So it just feels good that someone is saying they appreciate what you write.
Everyone likes compliments, no? |
Ditto!
I love getting those kind of PM's!
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challi
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:38 am
I think it is a really good idea to show pll you appreciate their posts. I think most people usually take time only if they don't like something to show it, and its such a shame.
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goodheart
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:01 pm
I think its a great idea why wouldn't ppl like compliments.
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Lechatchila Ariber
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:12 pm
I can't see any reason why people would get annoyed.
I've given and received such pms and I think it's nice.
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greenfire
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:21 pm
some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you
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Lechatchila Ariber
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:23 pm
greenfire wrote: | some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you |
sounds kind of teenagy. no?
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cookielady
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:45 pm
Lechatchila Ariber wrote: | greenfire wrote: | some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you |
sounds kind of teenagy. no? |
Totally!
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yummydd
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 7:46 pm
I think its very nice sending a comlimentary PM.
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NativeMom
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 7:57 pm
I don't see anything wrong with complimenting. I would find it flattering but I don't get pms like that either, most likely because I never have anything intelligent to say!
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greenfire
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:08 pm
I find it different however if you get a specific pm - perhaps about a post - or for advice ... but not out of the blue ...
yeah the amothers are regressing ... I have my teenagy moments too
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ShakleeMom
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Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:29 pm
I'm looking forward, thanks in advance.
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Ruchel
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Mon, Sep 15 2008, 5:50 am
These pms are always nice to send or receive!
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