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Aidelmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:06 am
It could be this is self understood but personally I am unsure. If I'm impressed by an imamothers post(s) and I want to let her know that she is aprreciated/give her a compliment, is it appropriate to pm her? I doubt that its appropriate to comment on the thread itself being that its quite public and its kind of hijacking the thread especially if I wnt to comment on the general trend.. OTOH would you be annoyed to get such a pm? Is it better just to keep quiet?
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StrongIma




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:08 am
I've also wondered the same thing.
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shalhevet




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:39 am
It is really nice to get such pms. I have both received and sent them. I send them when I really admire the post. Sometimes I have put a lot of time/effort into a post and/or said something that I know is controversial. So it just feels good that someone is saying they appreciate what you write.

Everyone likes compliments, no?
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Ima'la




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:43 am
Sure! Why would anyone mind a compliment? How nice of you to express appreciation!
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Aidelmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:09 am
Thanks, I haven't done it yet though! Ok everybody start working on it Wink
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zufriedene




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:16 am
I love to receive pm's complimenting, and also do send pms, I love private attention.
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ClaRivka




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 5:34 am
shalhevet wrote:
It is really nice to get such pms. I have both received and sent them. I send them when I really admire the post. Sometimes I have put a lot of time/effort into a post and/or said something that I know is controversial. So it just feels good that someone is saying they appreciate what you write.

Everyone likes compliments, no?


Ditto!

I love getting those kind of PM's!
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challi




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:38 am
I think it is a really good idea to show pll you appreciate their posts. I think most people usually take time only if they don't like something to show it, and its such a shame.
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goodheart




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:01 pm
I think its a great idea why wouldn't ppl like compliments. Thumbs Up
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Lechatchila Ariber




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:12 pm
I can't see any reason why people would get annoyed.
I've given and received such pms and I think it's nice.
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greenfire




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:21 pm
some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you Scratching Head
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Lechatchila Ariber




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:23 pm
greenfire wrote:
some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you Scratching Head


sounds kind of teenagy. no?
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cookielady




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 4:45 pm
Lechatchila Ariber wrote:
greenfire wrote:
some of them can be eerie ... especially if you don't know them and suddenly ... "hi you're kool" huh who are you Scratching Head


sounds kind of teenagy. no?

Totally!
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yummydd




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 7:46 pm
I think its very nice sending a comlimentary PM.
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NativeMom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 7:57 pm
I don't see anything wrong with complimenting. I would find it flattering but I don't get pms like that either, most likely because I never have anything intelligent to say! What
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greenfire




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:08 pm
I find it different however if you get a specific pm - perhaps about a post - or for advice ... but not out of the blue ...

yeah the amothers are regressing ... Nervous I have my teenagy moments too Wink
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ShakleeMom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 14 2008, 8:29 pm
I'm looking forward, thanks in advance.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2008, 5:50 am
These pms are always nice to send or receive!
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