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How should someone express their mean attributes?
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Give me my burka (as amother) |
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I'm perfectly fine to say what I think with my own sn |
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I'm using YOUR sn. |
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I don't believe in bashing people bclal, hello! |
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bashinda
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:17 am
I'm fairly new here but I've been surprised how many um, mean sounding posts I've seen here and no moderators to get rid of the pots. I'm just used to a more moderated board I guess.
Withhumor said make a poll and I have taken the bait!
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lotte
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:22 am
bashinda,read the rules..it says in one of them:Do not take anything personal!nothing is against YOU .people don't even know who you are & they are not trying to hurt you.
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greenfire
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:23 am
There are all kinds of people - everywhere - including on Imamother ... and possibly different moods too - sometimes ya just gotta say what ya gotta say ...
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mirisimma
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:26 am
just bc they dont know what your face looks like or your address, when you respond to what someone said in a mean way... youre being mean. not my style.
if you met your friends friend over the phone, would you be allowed to say whatever you wanted just bc you dont really know them? obviously not bc you may hurt their feelings and you may embarrass them.
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bashinda
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:26 am
I don't take things personal but at the same time, I really wonder why some people say mean things here? It just didn't happen on another board I was on. Ever.
but I wanted to be lighthearted as that's the type of person I am so when withhumor said make a poll I did.
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lotte
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:31 am
bashinda wrote: | I don't take things personal but at the same time, I really wonder why some people say mean things here? It just didn't happen on another board I was on. Ever.
but I wanted to be lighthearted as that's the type of person I am so when withhumor said make a poll I did. |
Looking at many previous polls I have a feeling that memebers here are not so "crazy" about polls.I dont' know why.
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greenfire
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:36 am
I agree people shouldn't be mean ... but what happens when they are ... you want to lash back ... retaliate ... defend ... this is my motto in general - "I'm nice ... till I'm not" usually that means s/o wasn't nice to me first and at that point my defenses are taking over
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bashinda
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:41 am
but when I lash back I try to lash back at their behavior not them. I hope!
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withhumor
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 9:45 am
I'm perfectly fine to say what I think with my own sn
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chocolate moose
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 10:43 am
don't forget that not everyone thinks what they say is mean . . things that would sound perfectly fine with your own voice and inflection can come across very harsh when typed.
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greenfire
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 10:44 am
chocolate moose wrote: | don't forget that not everyone thinks what they say is mean . . things that would sound perfectly fine with your own voice and inflection can come across very harsh when typed. |
interesting point cm
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withhumor
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 11:34 am
"Tatte, Shik Mich Hoizen"
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amother
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 11:40 am
I'm on pretty regularly. I haven't come across any mean posts for a long time ( a while back I did). W/o mentioning poster name, can you please give an example of what you consider mean.
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amother
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 12:49 pm
what the heck did all that mean, tzena rena? :shock: :oops:
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chocolate moose
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 12:59 pm
she's telling you that the same thing said differne ways mean different things.
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greenfire
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 1:48 pm
this one time in band camp ... I mean when I had to call a plumber ... after he looked at situation I asked him if he knew what he was doing ... he packed up his stuff and left ... I really meant does he know what he is going to do yet ... like what is the problem ... I called his boss and apologized ... the plus was that I fixed it myself ...
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bashinda
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 3:35 pm
that is important that something might come across sounding mean but it's not the intention and I should really be dan lekaf zchus.
I like this discussion and I'm glad I started the poll.
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chocolate moose
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Wed, Mar 21 2007, 3:44 pm
and, Bas HInda, we like you !!! and we're glad you're h ere!
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