wedding gift for well-to-do couple

amother

Wed, May 28 2014, 3:34 pm

amother wrote:

I should really appreciate such a gift but when I am struggling to pay food and medical bills it is really sometimes hurtful to get such a gift.

Obviously if I had more money then I needed I would feel differently.

Being in the same boat I really understand your sentiments, I TRY to think and feel when I get those that this is me giving tzedoka as we'll and let it still the guilt of not giving enough!

Tamiri

Wed, May 28 2014, 3:37 pm

cbg wrote:

How much do you want to spend?

http://www.judaicaplanet.com/f.....aica/

I saw this in someone's home and loved it right away.
I thought it was something they custom made because they are very wealthy. Then my DS got one as wedding present, and it was so excited. The letters look like they are floating. It is stunning and unique.

That's funny. I bought that same think but ani ledodi vedodi li for my aunt's 80th birthday. It was less than 100 nis (less than $30 IIRC). LOL!

Iymnok

Thu, May 29 2014, 3:26 am

Why don't you just ask them (or their parents) if there is anything they would appreciate? You won't risk something they don't want, and they will know you care
I t will seem more about them then your conscience.