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After candle lighting, After the bracha of Lihadlik Ner Shel, Which Yehi Ratzon do you say?

Yehi Ratzon.. Shetichonen Osi... Ligadel Banim etc

37%

[ 37 ]

Yehi Ratzon... Sheyibaneh Beis Hamikdosh etc.

11%

[ 11 ]

I say both of the above Yehi Ratzons after candle lighting

29%

[ 29 ]

Neither, None

13%

[ 13 ]

I say something else altogether

[ 6 ]

Sometimes I say one and sometimes the other

[ 0 ]

Whatever is in front of me, on the plaque or the siddur I happen to have at the time

[ 3 ]

It differs On Shabbos and Yom Tov

[ 0 ]

Total Votes : 99

mazeltov

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 12:25 pm

Please answer poll, and also:

Which siddur do you use, and which Yehi Ratzon does it state after candle lighting?

Yehi Ratzon.. Shetichonen Osi... Ligadel Banim etc

OR

Yehi Ratzon... Sheyibaneh Beis Hamikdosh etc.

Does anyone know the source/reason why some people say Yehi Ratzon.. Shetichonen Osi... Ligadel Banim etc
while others say
Yehi Ratzon... Sheyibaneh Beis Hamikdosh etc.
and others say BOTH?

I've only seen siddurim/machzorim with one or the other yehi ratzon after candle lighting, not with both.

Also- do you say the same yehi ratzon or different when lighting for Shabbos and/or for Yom Tov?

Last edited by mazeltov on Sun, Jul 13 2014, 3:58 pm; edited 1 time in total

Ruchel

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 12:39 pm

I have not heard of saying yehi ratzon at all.

mazeltov

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 4:01 pm

Does anyone have a siddur or machzor that says the Yehi Ratzon... Sheyibaneh Beis Hamikdosh after the bracha of lihadlik ner shel? What is the name of the siddur/machzor?

Ruchel- do you say any tefillah at candle lighting, or just the bracha lihadlik ner shel?

Ruchel

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 4:52 pm

just bracha and my own tefilos when I have the desire

Frumdoc

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 7:34 pm

I have a pretty printed card, given to me at my vort or around then which has both, so I have always said both. First yehi ratzon is essentially personal, and I add whatever I want to daven for that week, and the second for klal yisrael/ mashiach which I feel should always be a part of any tefillah.

If I'm away or don't have access to them, I say my own equivalent tefillah in English. I find hadlakat hanerot one of the few times where I can usually concentrate enough to say a meaningful prayer of some kind.

freidasima

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 7:38 pm

Just brocho, daven for my list of cholim and anything else I want from hashem.

joy613

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 8:55 pm

I say both.

Hashem_Yaazor

Sun, Jul 13 2014, 9:15 pm

First Sheyiboneh BHM"K and then Shetizakeini, and then a couple more private and personal ones.

losingweight

Mon, Jul 14 2014, 2:41 am

Every time I do one of the three mitzvah specifically for us women, mikvah, challah or candle lighting, I say yehi ratzon sheyboneh bais hamikdash. It's an opportunity only us yiddisha mamas have. After that I say whatever tefillos I desire.

shabbatiscoming

Mon, Jul 14 2014, 2:46 am

A friend gave me a lovely silver plated picture framed looking thing that stands right near my candles with the yehi ratzon...legadel banim...
I neve ruse a siddur, just that plaque/picture thing.

heidi

Mon, Jul 14 2014, 3:55 pm

shabbatiscoming wrote:

A friend gave me a lovely silver plated picture framed looking thing that stands right near my candles with the yehi ratzon...legadel banim...
I neve ruse a siddur, just that plaque/picture thing.

Switch the word friend for "organization" and that's me.

mandr

Tue, Jul 15 2014, 4:41 pm

I just say the bracha and then my own bakashos in English.

amother

Tue, Jul 15 2014, 5:33 pm

I say 'legadel bonim'. I have a framed picture of the text.

I also say Tefilas Chana as a segulah for sons who are talmidei chachomim, and the Tefila of the Chazon Ish for hatzlacha in Torah, in which I mention all my children (and IL children) if I am not too tired, otherwise I just say bonai uvnosai.

I actually feel a bit guilty that I don't name all my DGC. I ought to make a poll for bubbies. But I am usually too tired. (and I should print them out to make it easier...)

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