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Getting 5 year old up in the morning



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COOLME56




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 9:19 am
Hi,
Im having a very hard time getting my 5 year old up in the morning. she goes to sleep late around 9sih (due to her saying she isnt tired). I wake her up at 7.10 and her caprool comes at 805. I need to be at work at 8.15 so the morning is very rushed and today I lost it since she wasnt listening at at all and the clock is ticking. Every morn so far consists of screaming, threatening and I catn come to work like this. Im in a horrible mood.

Any adivcie is appreciated.
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shabbatiscoming




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 9:22 am
make her go into bed earlier. let her read or play, but IN bed. She will hopefully fall asleep.
A 5 year old who has to wake up at 7 should be in bed at 7:30 the latest, I think. My daughter, age 6, still needs 12 hours of sleep. so should a 5 year old, if they are tired in the morning.
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COOLME56




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 9:34 am
right so thats what were doing, but seh keeps coming out of her room and not listening
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kb




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 10:22 am
Would a bedtime chart work?

There should definitely be a consequence for getting out of bed once Mommy puts her in. Up to you what, but it should exist. Something major enough that it will be a deterrent from getting out.

Help her wind down (or use up steam, depending on your child) a half hour before bed.
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mommyla




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 10:25 am
Yes, a consequence for getting out of bed or a reward for staying in bed. If my son stays in bed (or just gets out once), he gets chocolate milk with breakfast the next morning. It works like a charm!
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saw50st8




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 15 2014, 10:42 am
When my kids give us trouble in the morning, we started saying "OK, but you are going in the car as you are." We had a bag of clothes for them and some mornings it meant putting them in the car with just their underwear on. After a few days, they got dressed easily.

We also do breakfast after getting dressed. They are usually motivated to get breakfast :-)

You also need to solve the bedtime issue. She should be in bed and have consequences for coming out of bed.
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