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dr. pepper
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Sat, Nov 22 2014, 8:09 pm
What a nice topic!
1) Don't be afraid to seek out help; of any sort, but especially mental health.
Only crazy people don't get help....healthy people, who know they need help; get help!
2) To all girls dating: do not consider marrying someone who has not actively demonstrated the ability to be machniya to someone else's advice...and a rav or rabbi/ mentor would be optimal.
I truly believe with all my heart and soul that this is THE litmus test of the ability to withstand married life's inevitable challenges. JMHO
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miri36
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Sat, Nov 22 2014, 9:13 pm
That Hashem loves you. No matter how down and alone you feel, trust in Him. He is always there.
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FranticFrummie
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 1:08 am
Awesome dating advice a friend gave me:
What too look for in a husband ~ he has to be KIND, and he has to be RESPONSIBLE. Those are the only two things you need to look for (assuming that the hashkafa is already compatible.)
If he is kind, there will be love, and if he is responsible, there will be shalom bayit.
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Bitachon101
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 1:32 am
Not to hate, dislike, or not associate with ppl bc they are different from you
To give everyone a chance to feel good
To put some humor into life and be able to smile even when things get tough
Sorry I know its more than one just wish I could express this more often!
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kalsee
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 3:52 am
Enjoy making others happy, doing favors for them.
Sometimes something small you do can make a big difference in someone else's life.
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morningsickness
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 10:14 am
That it's ok to be angry at Hashem. If he is a father, then I'm def. allowed to get angry anf upset sometimes when he does things that are painful to me. In general, that what Hashem wants from us is a relationship with him.
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Clarissa
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 10:17 am
To try to find a way around using Whip in desserts.
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wantavaca
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 1:01 pm
I second not judging people. One never knows.
And always ask advice from others who know better/ have more experience.
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kol_yom
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 2:27 pm
To smile even when in the worst situations, no one is at fault for my suffering and deff no one deserves my growl or bad mood. Get the help and share your pain with those who care but dont make the world suffer for my own h*ll.
(Do I sound mean? I dont mean to)
And if I may add another one: we are human, we are made by Hashem. So respecting others isnt a choice you have to make or not, but an obligation by the one who created us all. Otherwise its like saying "I dont approve of what G-d created".....
Great thread! Thank you, I'm learning a lot from the other posters!
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mommydearest
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 3:27 pm
Have gratitude. Even when times are tough, if you can find gratitude, your perspective changes.
Oh and smile - always! It's free and has such and impact.
Love the thread!
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mema613
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 3:54 pm
Its important to work but also to make time for the people who really care about you! Never mix a good friendship with business! Stay far away from people who bad mouth peoples husbands even though they might be nice in other ways! Watch the way you speak to your children no matter how old they are for you can never erase what is said. Make sure to compliment your family members.
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shanie5
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Sun, Nov 23 2014, 8:22 pm
You can get through anything that life throws at you if you just keep trying. One day at a time or one moment at a time.
Hashem is there-always. Turn to HIM for the little as well as the big.
Always say please and thank you.
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