Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Advanced Search   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Judaism -> Halachic Questions and Discussions
What halachos pertain to a 9 year old boy



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

asmileaday




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:18 pm
So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.

Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.

What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks
Back to top

amother


 

Post Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:49 pm
I believe the laws of yichud and negia apply. Only immediate female family members (mother, grandmother, sister, [wife, daughter not applicable at this time]) can touch him.

He is under Bar Mitzvah and he should not touch them or listen to their singing because of chinuch.
Back to top

Leahh




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:50 pm
asmileaday wrote:
So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.

Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.

What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks

As far as I remember from school once a boy turns 9 all halachos of yichud and neggia apply with any girl over bas mitzvah.
Maybe ask your rav.
Back to top

ra_mom




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Feb 28 2015, 8:52 pm
asmileaday wrote:
So my son just turned 9 and someone mentioned to me that now his aunts are not allowed (in her words - it's assur) to kiss him and he's not allowed to hear them sing.

Is this true? Sounds a bit extreme to me.

What else do I need to know?
Not looking for chimros only basic halacha.
Thanks

Halachos of Yichud and Negiya now apply with any girl over 3.
Back to top

greenfire




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 01 2015, 8:05 am
when you make an issue of these 'chumras' you put thoughts into a child's mind that would never otherwise be there ...
Back to top

mommy3b2c




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:06 am
ra_mom wrote:
Halachos of Yichud and Negiya now apply with any girl over 3.


This is definitely not true. No halachos apply between two children.
Back to top

asmileaday




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:28 am
greenfire wrote:
when you make an issue of these 'chumras' you put thoughts into a child's mind that would never otherwise be there ...


Exactly. Question is are they chumros or halachos? According to previous posters these are halachos.
Back to top

asmileaday




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 01 2015, 10:30 am
mommy2b2c wrote:
This is definitely not true. No halachos apply between two children.


Are you referring to the girl over 3? Or the boy over 9? Or both?

Does anyone have a link to trustworthy online site that has the halachos? I've learned them in school but can't remember any of it....
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Judaism -> Halachic Questions and Discussions

Related Topics Replies Last Post
Affordable 3 year old girls clothes
by amother
4 Today at 12:46 am View last post
Birthday gift one year old
by dbg
1 Today at 12:27 am View last post
[ Poll ] S/o of $40k is $150k a year enough to get by?
by amother
31 Yesterday at 6:40 pm View last post
Clothes Shopping List for Baby Boy
by Sushi22
3 Yesterday at 1:56 am View last post
Smelly feet - 10 year old girl
by amother
4 Wed, Mar 27 2024, 9:45 pm View last post