Does judaism believe in physical compatibility????

amother

Seagreen

Thu, Jul 28 2016, 4:06 pm

amother wrote:

So the therapy helped you perfect the f0replay and pleasure each other in other ways outside of p in v? The amount of time your husband was able to last p in v remained the same?

I'm sorry if I wasn't clear. By using the therapy my husband is able to delay ejaculation and control his own physical timing. The side benefit to stop start is the extended f0replay.

amother

Plum

Sun, Nov 19 2017, 4:22 am

Correction: ask your Rav about Yom Kippur...There must be different interpretations now. I know Yom Kippur is a no-no. And I know this is a very old post just the Yon Kipur worried me.

Benevolence wrote:

The following is derived from R' Avraham Israel's book from 2012 Ve'ein Lamo Mikhshol

Not fulfilling and providing for Mitzvat Onah is
Bitul Torah.
Masechet brachot 28
Rabbi Elazar Ben Azaria consults his wife if to become Nasie. Initially she disapproves but agrees later. Since Onat Nasie is once a month being a very demanding job - he had to have her consent for Bitul Onatah.
Rambam Halachot Ishut - ch 14 no 7
one must learn this perticular Kium Mitzvah just like Tefilin Netilah or any other
Intentional and unintentional deprivation is an
Al Ta'ase transgression if done on purpose
Even Haezer siman 14
A problem MUST be addressed and taken care of
Harav Kanievsky "Hasteifler" HaOnah is from
Deorita just like Matzah - VeOnatah Lo Igra
No absolution for it even on Yom Hakippurim
Rashi Kidushin 19
Rashi on Masechet Shabbat page 452
Fulfilling Onah properly and with Kavanah - Shlom Bais
Rashi continues in parashat Vayetze
Not providing for Onah torments one's wife. By Din one must treat in order to better
Rambam offers in Sefer HaRefu'ot vol 4 page
49
Pat shachrit
Hamozie or at least mezont
Joy, amusement and laughter are very good for
Koach HaGavrah
Lament agony and grief
Fasting working and waking up too early hurts it
severly which evidently hurts Shlom Bais
Rabbi Yizhak Falagie - eat unsalted bolied lentils
Bracha Vehatzlacha b"H!
On a personal note - It gets much much better