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WWYD If your child spilled a box of cereal in a supermarket?
a. Apologize  
 0%  [ 2 ]
b. Let someone know  
 3%  [ 7 ]
c. A & B (see above)  
 11%  [ 26 ]
d. Walk away and keep quiet  
 2%  [ 6 ]
e. Offer to pay  
 13%  [ 31 ]
f. A & E (see above)  
 65%  [ 148 ]
g. Other (post below)  
 2%  [ 5 ]
Total Votes : 225



MagentaYenta




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 1:23 pm
I dropped a watermelon once. It was a mess, I was apologizing and feeling terrible when one of the workers doing clean up said, 'It all pays the same'. I had a giggle and offered to pay but they refused. Markets do have spoilage or damage write offs.
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Cookie Monster




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 5:42 pm
OP, why are you asking?
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amother
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Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 5:47 pm
Cookie Monster wrote:
OP, why are you asking?


This happened on Friday in Kosher supermarket on Long Island. The mother couldn't care less.
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merelyme




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 6:18 pm
chani8 wrote:
I dont see why 'offer to pay' when you are clearly responsible for the mistake. If you damage something, you should pay for it. Unless the package was faulty and popped open too easily.


A parent is not halachically liable for damage done by a child.

Having said that, it is generally accepted as menschlich behavior to offer to pay.
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HonesttoGod




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 10:44 pm
mha3484 wrote:
A,B & E. Apologize, let the employee know and pay for it.


This. Except I would pay. Not just offer to do so. It's only right and polite.
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notshanarishona




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 01 2015, 11:20 pm
amother wrote:
This happened on Friday in Kosher supermarket on Long Island. The mother couldn't care less.


How do you know she didn't mention it to the cashier?
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suremom




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 02 2015, 10:59 am
I once shopped in mom pop grocery and something broke, offered to pay and they accepted. I later asked dayan if I was supposed to pay he said I am only supposed to pay how much it costed them not with markup.
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Chayalle




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 02 2015, 2:59 pm
My daughter has always been very quick - she would've excelled at sleight-of-hand illusions. She once got hold of a certain toy, quicker than I could say boo, and ripped the box. And that's how we have a full set of mitzva kinder I had had no plans of purchasing.
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sky




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 02 2015, 3:12 pm
I would tell the store so they can clean it up, apologize and offer to pay.

I once had a bottle of very expensive oil slip through the slats of the shopping cart the store provided. It made a tremendous mess and was dangerous. The store cleaned it up.
When I offered to pay they said normally they do not charge for items broken while shopping, but because the item was sold on a shelf rented out by someone selling specialty products they had to charge me.
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