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Separate beds tonight?



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amother
Chocolate


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 3:02 pm
Do beds need to be separated tonight? Or is it just that you can't sleep in the same bed?
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amother
Cyan


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 3:19 pm
Ask your LOR
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amother
Crimson


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 9:00 pm
Yes. Harchakos apply on yom kippur and tisha b'av.
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amother
Jade


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 9:16 pm
And I would say no, you just can't have zex, sleeping in the same bed is fine.
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amother
cornflower


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 9:39 pm
We keep all harchakos. So step beds. No handing items. Etc.
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amother
Blue


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 9:40 pm
As if you are nidda. Do whatever you do when you are nidda
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amother
Peach


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 10:40 pm
but its a nidcha ...so does that change it?
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amother
Blue


 

Post Sat, Aug 13 2016, 10:42 pm
amother wrote:
but its a nidcha ...so does that change it?

No
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causemommysaid




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Aug 14 2016, 11:28 am
please ask your rabbi. everyone does different things.
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amother
Azure


 

Post Sun, Aug 14 2016, 11:50 am
amother wrote:
We keep all harchakos. So step beds. No handing items. Etc.


We don't touch affectionately and don't share beds. We are ok with handing things or non-affectionate touch. AYLOR.
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