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jacky blacky




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 7:20 am
my 13 year old son injured both his arms. he will not be able to take a shower himself for the next month or so. I was wondering if I there is a problem with me helping him take a shower. and if yea am I aloud to wash his private area. (and no father is not a solution for this situation)
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PinkFridge




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 7:25 am
No answer but refuah shleima and I hope your son is comfortable through the process.
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nywife




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 9:05 am
Is there an option of hiring a nurse to come by the house and help him with these tasks? Nurses help patients with showering and dressing all the time and it might be less awkward for him than having his mom do it.
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jacky blacky




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 11:11 am
I just don't feel like I could trust a nurse to bathe and dress him.
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jacky blacky




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 11:13 am
if someone can reply because I have to do something tonight
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glamourmom




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 11:26 am
jacky blacky wrote:
I just don't feel like I could trust a nurse to bathe and dress him.


why wouldn't you trust a nurse? ask your son what he prefers. he's big enough to know what he'll find more comfortable.

are you the same poster that wrote that your son has a pain "there" and you want to check it out?
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Iymnok




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 12:24 pm
Can he use his arms/hands at all? A bath brush or something like it would be good.
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octopus




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 1:10 pm
Do you have a removable shower head?
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octopus




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 1:12 pm
or can you fill tub and just help him get in and he just sits? or what about a sitz bath? just fill it up and let him soak with privacy.
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lfab




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 25 2016, 1:55 pm
Can you shower him while he's wearing a bathing suit or pair of underwear? He might feel more comfortable that way. To clean his groin, after you finish washing the rest of his body you can fill the tub with a few inches of soapy water and just let him sit for a few minutes. It's not the same as scrubbing but for a short while should be ok. Otherwise the suggestion above to hire a nurse is a good one. You can likely request a male nurse if that would make both of you more comfortable.
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