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Dd 12 yo ds 16 yo are roughhousing. Is it tznius??
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byisrael




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 15 2016, 3:03 am
I am 21 and I went to Bnos Yaakov in lakewood.

There were conversations about s-x starting in 6th grade. The more horrific stuff came in 8th grade.

Yes there were girls who where not part of those conversations (usually the less yeshivish).
I probably also depends on the classes dynamic. But most of the class was.
Listen you can take the chance - I wouldn't.

I happen to have been growing up out of lkwd in a very upper class prust community (parents did kiruv) so I think that's why my mother felt she needed to educate me - but I learned more untruths and had more s-x discussions with my LKWD friends then with my secular friends.
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amother
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Post Thu, Sep 15 2016, 11:28 am
Op here
I'm going to tell her today that she can't sit on ds (or anything close to that ). She is bas mitzvah and it's not tzneius.
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amother
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Post Thu, Sep 15 2016, 12:14 pm
We learned that a brother and sister over bar and bas mitzvah should not kiss and hug. I think sitting on the lap is similar to hugging - it's also "chiba" behavior.

I would just tell her that now that you're bas mitzvah, you should not kiss, hug, cuddle or sit on the lap of any of your brothers who are over bar mitzvah.
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