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amother
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:10 pm
mommy3b2c wrote: | Yes. Everyone does. |
Nope. Not everyone. I've seen the picture of my mom signing in her wedding album, but I didnt sign anything.
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amother
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:20 pm
I used Rav Moshe Feinstein's text for Tenaim. It is only signed by Eidim. It was signed the day of the wedding - however not by me.
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octopus
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:23 pm
I signed mine. I'm not chassidish. The eidim came and gave me a pen and paper. I totally wasn't prepared for it. I signed in super sloppy handwriting (hebrew). I still have that paper.
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mommy3b2c
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:23 pm
amother wrote: | My question was did the you (the kallah) sign.. u said yes.. if u aren't there then how did u sign it?! | m
I thought you meant was a tenoyim signed.
But anyway, if I think back, maybe I did. Ill have to ask my mother. Domt really remember.
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amother
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:35 pm
mommy3b2c wrote: | m
I thought you meant was a tenoyim signed.
But anyway, if I think back, maybe I did. Ill have to ask my mother. Domt really remember. |
Didn't you keep your tenoyim document? Or are you one of those people who lets her mother keep her kesuba by her?
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mommy3b2c
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Sun, May 14 2017, 9:38 pm
amother wrote: | Didn't you keep your tenoyim document? Or are you one of those people who lets her mother keep her kesuba by her? |
My mother took my kesuba home the night of my wedding and its been there ever since.
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amother
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Sun, May 14 2017, 10:25 pm
Mine was signed by 2 witnesses in the chassan's tisch. I never saw it until after the wedding.
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heidi
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Mon, May 15 2017, 1:49 am
I was told to lift a pen while I was sitting in the kallah chair at the kabbalat panim. I had no idea why. Realized later that it was tenaim. I wonder if that's even valid.
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Rutabaga
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Mon, May 15 2017, 1:56 am
I think I signed something but I have no idea what happened to it. I wouldn't think the tanaim have any significance once the wedding occurs. I do have my kesuba.
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miami85
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Mon, May 15 2017, 9:01 am
Tenaim WERE signed on my behalf, but by the time I saw the document it didn't mean anything b/c it was already after the chuppah. I have seen wedding where the kallah did the handkerchief thing, but I didn't. We have the document somewhere.
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amother
Beige
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Mon, May 15 2017, 9:25 am
I have my ketubah but don't think I have my tenaim?
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tigerwife
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Mon, May 15 2017, 11:10 am
Never heard of the handkerchief, but I lifted a gartel by my vort. Is that the same idea? Honestly didn't even think twice about it.
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crust
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Mon, May 15 2017, 11:44 am
mommy3b2c wrote: | My mother took my kesuba home the night of my wedding and its been there ever since. |
Maybe I'm slow and this is a joke? Don't chap.
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sky
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Mon, May 15 2017, 11:48 am
crust wrote: | Maybe I'm slow and this is a joke? Don't chap. |
My mother also has mine. Its very common in some circles.
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crust
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Mon, May 15 2017, 11:51 am
sky wrote: | My mother also has mine. Its very common in some circles. | ok. Thanks for clarifying. May I ask where this minhag comes from?
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LiLIsraeli
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Mon, May 15 2017, 12:00 pm
crust wrote: | Maybe I'm slow and this is a joke? Don't chap. |
What's the problem? My mother has my kesuba too. As long as you know where it is, it's fine.
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crust
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Mon, May 15 2017, 12:03 pm
LiLIsraeli wrote: | What's the problem? My mother has my kesuba too. As long as you know where it is, it's fine. | I didn't say it's a problem. I haven't heard of it. I thought it was something I don't get.
Now, I am respectfully curious if this is a minhag and where it comes from.
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STMommy
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Mon, May 15 2017, 12:20 pm
I don't remember signing my tenaim at my wedding.
I do remember signing my pre-nup.
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mommy3b2c
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Mon, May 15 2017, 12:34 pm
crust wrote: | Maybe I'm slow and this is a joke? Don't chap. |
Its not a joke. My kesuba is in my parents house. Why would it be a joke?
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tigerwife
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Mon, May 15 2017, 12:36 pm
crust wrote: | ok. Thanks for clarifying. May I ask where this minhag comes from? |
There was a pretty interesting thread here not so long ago about where people keep their kesubos.
ETA:
http://www.imamother.com/forum.....esuba
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