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amother
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 Tue, May 30 2017, 10:42 am
OP update: I contacted a big rav in my neighborhood the next day with the full story. It was a big stretch and he needed to team up with another rabbi but ultimately they found a reason to declare the dishes kosher.
And yes my reaction was related to the general tension. Actually my personality is that I probably would have yelled about something like this anyway, kind of like Frantic Frummie explained, just a dramatic reaction. But it happens to be that we're in the process of divorce (it's not just this) and I have been putting up with A LOT by thinking "hang in there, he'll be gone soon" and this just pushed me over the limit of how much I could do that.
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Seas
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Tue, May 30 2017, 11:31 am
| amother wrote: | OP update: I contacted a big rav in my neighborhood the next day with the full story. It was a big stretch and he needed to team up with another rabbi but ultimately they found a reason to declare the dishes kosher.
And yes my reaction was related to the general tension. Actually my personality is that I probably would have yelled about something like this anyway, kind of like Frantic Frummie explained, just a dramatic reaction. But it happens to be that we're in the process of divorce (it's not just this) and I have been putting up with A LOT by thinking "hang in there, he'll be gone soon" and this just pushed me over the limit of how much I could do that. |
That's a bit of a fatalistic attitude. Why not instead think if we're anyway still together perhaps let's try to make it work.
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miami85
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Tue, May 30 2017, 3:27 pm
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Glad you found a resolution, I didn't read through the whole thread, but one thing I learned from my rav is that soap resolves a lot of kashrus problems. If the dishes were soaking in a soapy dishpan, then that could be they were "nosein ta'am l'fgam" and therefore the hot mlchig--also likely soapy water would've cancelled out. Im not a rav, but I can definitely hear there being room to be meikil.
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