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amother
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 Mon, Aug 14 2017, 10:28 pm
So I was the "Shadchan" for a "daven for me and I'll daven for you situation"--one a relative, and one an "Acquaintance"--and they know about each other. B"H my relative got a mazel tov and when I relayed to the other side, she offered to help with the financial aspect of the simcha--but she wants the source to be kept quiet. So now I have $2k cash intended for this simcha. How do I best relay the $$ but keep the source a secret and possibly help fulfill the highest level of tzedaka whereby the beneficiary doesn't realize that they have been the recipient of tzedaka?
Edited to add, my relative knows that I'm not well off myself, so just "offering to pay for xyz" may raise eyebrows.
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