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My daughter was taught to fear me



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amother
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Post Fri, Nov 17 2017, 2:54 pm
Today my daughter learnt that god wants her to fear me.
She laughed and said god is lying because I won’t hurt her.
But what about those little kids in her class who really have reason to fear their parents?
This is messed up.
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amother
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Post Fri, Nov 17 2017, 3:01 pm
amother wrote:
Today my daughter learnt that god wants her to fear me.
She laughed and said god is lying because I won’t hurt her.
But what about those little kids in her class who really have reason to fear their parents?
This is messed up.


I agree תִּירָ֔אוּ translated as revering rather than fearing is easier.

But did the teacher say - fear your parents (or mother) because they (she) might hurt you? Thats messed up. That's not the consequence that should have been taught.
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Rubber Ducky




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Nov 17 2017, 3:05 pm
That's a very poor translation by the teacher, but interpreting the verse to mean a parent might hurt her sounds more like a preschooler's interpretation of "fear" than something the teacher actually said.
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groisamomma




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Nov 17 2017, 4:05 pm
I doubt the teacher said to be scared of you because you will hurt her otherwise. That's juvenile thinking and probably your own daughter's interpretation. I wouldn't worry about the rest of the class.
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imasoftov




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Nov 18 2017, 12:32 pm
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mammala120




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Nov 18 2017, 7:34 pm
That's messed up. Have talked to ur daughter about it. Does it mean fear as in respect your parents or fear as in abuse?
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notshanarishona




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Nov 18 2017, 7:45 pm
How old is your daughter?
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