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amother
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 Thu, Jun 01 2006, 1:05 pm
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Everytime I take my 3.5 yr old daughter somewhere to play she always wants to take home the other person's toy/doll.... This is accompanied with yelling, crying... How do you deal with this? How do you stop her from crying & not give in? It's so embarassing & such a horrible reflection on my dd & me!!!
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Tefila
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Thu, Jun 01 2006, 7:34 pm
| Quote: | | such a horrible reflection on my dd & me!!! |
Only if you give in it is  Kids will be kids and try you but if you r firm the first time then the following times will not be a problem Hatzlacha
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mom3boys
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Sun, Jun 04 2006, 9:15 pm
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I agree with Tefila. Others will judge regardless, however they probably will judge negatively if you give in to your toddler's tantrums.
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TammyTammy
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Sun, Jun 04 2006, 10:15 pm
The Toddler's Creed:
If I want it, it's mine.
If I give it to you and change my mind later, it's mine.
If I can take it away from you, it's mine.
If I had it a little while ago, it's mine.
If it's mine, it will never belong to anybody else, no matter what.
If we are building something together, all the pieces are mine.
If it looks just like mine, it is mine.
If it's broken, it's yours.
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amother
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Mon, Jun 05 2006, 9:02 am
| Quote: | | Only if you give in it is Kids will be kids and try you but if you r firm the first time then the following times will not be a problem Hatzlacha |
I don't give in. this has happened more than 5 times, without giving in & she still doesn't learn!
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Tefila
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Mon, Jun 05 2006, 6:16 pm
| Quote: | | I don't give in. this has happened more than 5 times, without giving in & she still doesn't learn |
Can't you try to prepare her beforehand or just tell her simply we cannot go to so and so home b/c you just don't know how to give back when we have to go. I"ll tell you what if you promise to be nice and show me next time how well you listen perhaps I will let you take your fav doll /toy too with us.
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