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amother
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 Tue, Nov 20 2012, 10:07 pm
| Quote: | | if there is a 9yo boy and 12+yo girl then there is an issue (which is the common babysitting yichud problem) |
wait, does this mean there is something wrong with getting a babysitter for my 9 and 10 yr old sons?
I have younger kids too, but the older boys are awake long after the younger ones go to bed.
is this a problem?
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shalhevet
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Wed, Nov 21 2012, 2:51 am
| amother wrote: | | Quote: | | if there is a 9yo boy and 12+yo girl then there is an issue (which is the common babysitting yichud problem) |
wait, does this mean there is something wrong with getting a babysitter for my 9 and 10 yr old sons?
I have younger kids too, but the older boys are awake long after the younger ones go to bed.
is this a problem? |
Yes, it's a problem. Ask your rav what to do - there are solutions. Like leaving a key with neighbours who are a married couple with permission to come in whenever they want to - they don't actually have to come. You need to ask a rav for what to do in your specific situation. We have been into this several times and it depends on the ages of the sister(s) and the specific circumstances.
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Mrs Bissli
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Wed, Nov 21 2012, 8:27 pm
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Can someone please educate me why swimming pool has anything to do with yichud? I'm assuming co-ed swimming in public pool? There are many of us who won't have issues with co-ed swimming in the first place, FYI.
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bluebird
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Wed, Nov 21 2012, 9:35 pm
| Mrs Bissli wrote: | | Can someone please educate me why swimming pool has anything to do with yichud? |
I'm curious about that part, too. Obviously tzniut and shomer negiah, but I don't see how yichud comes into play in what seems like a public situation.
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Peanut2
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Wed, Nov 21 2012, 9:37 pm
| shalhevet wrote: | | amother wrote: | | Quote: | | if there is a 9yo boy and 12+yo girl then there is an issue (which is the common babysitting yichud problem) |
wait, does this mean there is something wrong with getting a babysitter for my 9 and 10 yr old sons?
I have younger kids too, but the older boys are awake long after the younger ones go to bed.
is this a problem? |
Yes, it's a problem. Ask your rav what to do - there are solutions. Like leaving a key with neighbours who are a married couple with permission to come in whenever they want to - they don't actually have to come. You need to ask a rav for what to do in your specific situation. We have been into this several times and it depends on the ages of the sister(s) and the specific circumstances. |
If there are two boys over the age how is that a problem?
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