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amother
Pearl
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 Mon, Jun 08 2015, 11:57 am
My friend is planning a big kiddush and lunch on her daughters bo' bayom which is Tisha B"av which falls out on Shabbos.
Even though there is really nothing wrong halachakly I feel uncomfortable going.
I know she will feel bad but do I tell her now or wait till it gets closer and tell her then.
I am just curious if everyone feels the way I do.
Also would you feel differently if it was a Bar Mitzvah.
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singleagain
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Mon, Jun 08 2015, 11:59 am
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how close are you to this friend? and would she listen to what you have to say? I think that makes a huge difference, in what you should say and how
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amother
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Mon, Jun 08 2015, 12:28 pm
| amother wrote: | My friend is planning a big kiddush and lunch on her daughters bo' bayom which is Tisha B"av which falls out on Shabbos.
Even though there is really nothing wrong halachakly I feel uncomfortable going.
I know she will feel bad but do I tell her now or wait till it gets closer and tell her then.
I am just curious if everyone feels the way I do.
Also would you feel differently if it was a Bar Mitzvah. |
Isn't Tisha B'Av on Saturday night?
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water_bear88
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Mon, Jun 08 2015, 12:46 pm
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I assume she asked her rav? I'm pretty sure that Shabbat does not lose its status, regardless of what the calendar date is.
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doctorima
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Mon, Jun 08 2015, 12:50 pm
| amother wrote: | | Isn't Tisha B'Av on Saturday night? |
The 9th day of Av is actually on Shabbos this year, but the fast is pushed off until the following day.
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amother
Pearl
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Mon, Jun 08 2015, 12:51 pm
Tisha B'av is really on shabbos this year.
I am close to my friend but dont really feel very comfortable talking about this topic because we are different levels of yiddishkeit .
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