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Mint
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:05 pm
Is your self-esteem based on the number of "Likes" and "Hugs" you get on Imamother?
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monseychick
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:10 pm
ABSOLUTELY.... IF I ONLY GET A 100 HUGS A DAY, I'M COMPLETELY DEVASTATED....
If you see my name, even if its amother, but you think its me.. Don't even waste your time reading it, just give it a hug... Tell your co-workers to join imamother and give me a hug..
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youngishbear
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:16 pm
amother wrote: | Is your self-esteem based on the number of "Likes" and "Hugs" you get on Imamother? |
Just in case yours is, I made sure to hug and like you.
Cheers.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:20 pm
youngishbear wrote: | Just in case yours is, I made sure to hug and like you.
Cheers.
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Are you saying that nobody cares at all?
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yogabird
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:26 pm
Maybe my imamother-esteem, but definitely not my IRL self esteem.
But your self esteem should never be equated with your popularity.
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youngishbear
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 7:31 pm
amother wrote: | Are you saying that nobody cares at all? |
If a poster writes a post looking for support (usually as amother, if you've noticed) then hugs are a nice way of giving it. I'm sure for those posters it feels good that so many women spent a moment thinking about them and extending their compassion.
It's nice to have your post liked, just like it's nice to connect with like-minded people in real life. But to base my self-esteem (even my virtual self's esteem) on that would be sad.
I doubt too many people will answer your question affirmatively.
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acemom
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Tue, Dec 30 2014, 9:33 pm
Yes. Definitely.
Wait. Who am I kidding? (What is self-esteem again?)
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zaq
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Thu, Jan 01 2015, 11:46 am
G-d forbid.
While getting a lot of "likes" is undeniably a "point of light" in the day, it is more like a pinpoint of light, as it were. Which is still better than a kick in the pants.
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amother
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Thu, Jan 01 2015, 11:53 am
Since I already have a low self esteem I don't feel very good about myself when my post doesn't get liked. I'm afraid my ideas or advice doesn't make sense to anyone and it ''proves'' that I really am weird.
Now please don't like this post just to make me feel good...
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southernbubby
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Thu, Jan 01 2015, 12:37 pm
There are plenty of cyberbullies on here. The trolls who give others a bad experience have anger management issues so don't give them too much power.
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heidi
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Thu, Jan 01 2015, 12:41 pm
It made my day (well actually a minute of my day) when I actually got onto the "most liked post" list on the home page.
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chani8
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Thu, Jan 28 2016, 11:44 pm
This threads are cute. All about the hugs, 'bout the hugs, and the likes.
When I see someone didn't get a like for their comment, I hit the like. Everyone's voice matters.
It isn't about popularity, it's about being heard, noticed, acknowledged.
I dont understand why there are 300 women logged on at any given time, but only 20 people post their comments. Why don't they comment?
I see this on facebook, too. Over 8000 members of a group but the same 10 people post. Why is that?
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seeker
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Fri, Jan 29 2016, 12:19 am
My self esteem doesn't depend on it but I'd be lying if I said it doesn't feel good to get a lot of likes.
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tweety1
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Fri, Jan 29 2016, 12:33 am
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
I'd be in bad shape if my self esteem depends on the Internet let alone "imamother".
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notshanarishona
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Fri, Jan 29 2016, 12:39 am
Someones you have nothing real to add to the coversation or many times someone already said what you would have said.
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