If you are invited to an engagement vort with 1 day notice..

amother

Natural

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 4:39 pm

... Are you supposed to bring a gift? If so, what sort of thing? Asking coz they're Lubavitch and I'm MO so I have no clue of the etiquette. TIA!

southernbubby

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 5:11 pm

You don't have to bring a gift and most people don't bring gifts.

thunderstorm

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 5:16 pm

Giving a wedding gift later on is just fine. You don't have to bring a gift.

33055

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 5:45 pm

If there will be a tenyoim, then I bring the gift to that. If not, then I give a gift with a nice set- up.

amother

Natural

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 5:53 pm

Squishy wrote:

If there will be a tenyoim, then I bring the gift to that. If not, then I give a gift with a nice set- up.

Thanks for the answers, but this one I don't understand at all. Can someone please explain?

amother

Cerulean

Mon, Apr 30 2018, 6:37 pm

Most Lubavitchers don’t bring gifts to the lechayim (besides for close family/Kallahs friends might arrange a group gift that one of the stores in CH will deliver set up nicely)

Most Chabad girls create a registery some time after they get engaged - you can ask them or their parents where they are registered later on and buy them a gift off that or send them one later.