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amother
Floralwhite
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 6:56 pm
When the kallah receives the bracelet by the vort, who is it from? The chosson or his parents?
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simba
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 7:04 pm
Are you asking who pays for it?!
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amother
Floralwhite
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 9:47 pm
No. Wondering who gives it?
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amother
Tan
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 9:51 pm
In the chassidish circles the chossons mom gives it.
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SuperWify
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 9:52 pm
In my circles the chosson. Many times he proposes with it instead of a ring.
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aimhabanim
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 10:00 pm
What about in Yeshivish circles?
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amother
Burgundy
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 11:10 pm
My chosson gave it to me (standard Yeshivish).
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chocolatecake
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 11:17 pm
I am yeshivish and by my lechaim my mother in law pulled me aside and gave me a choice of around 4 bracelets. My mother gave it to my sister in laws at their Lechaims too. The ring though the chosson presents to the kalla
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amother
Floralwhite
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 11:43 pm
Thanks for clarifying! Anyone (Yeshivish) disagree?
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coloredleaves
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Thu, Jul 19 2018, 11:45 pm
My daughter was given it by hwr chosson when he proposed. Standard lakewood yeshivish. Same with most of her friends in same bais Yaakov and yeshivish circles
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BA
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Fri, Jul 20 2018, 1:46 am
Yeshivish. My chosson gave it to me when he proposed
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Iymnok
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Fri, Jul 20 2018, 5:28 am
The chosson gives it when he proposes. They choose a ring later. (It’s also not so bad if she doesn’t love the bracelet).
BIL had my sister choose from three that the jeweler lethim borrow.
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amother
Blue
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Fri, Jul 20 2018, 6:58 am
DH presented the bracelet to me when we got engaged. He didn't hand it to me directly because he said that could possibly constitute a kinyan (I.e. marriage).
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Ruchel
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Fri, Jul 20 2018, 7:37 am
No bracelet.
Also the gift is from the person she marries though the parents may pay
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amother
Brown
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Fri, Jul 20 2018, 9:56 am
Ruchel wrote: | No bracelet.
Also the gift is from the person she marries though the parents may pay |
Depends. My then- chosson gave me jewelry directly, and it was taken as a gift from him (I didn't ask who paid). My in laws also gave me jewelry directly during the engagement, and it was clear that it was a gift from them.
I think as a rule, it's considered to be from the one who hands it to you, unless otherwise specified.
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