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Amber
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Sun, Aug 05 2018, 10:28 pm
Is it real or not? Bli ayin hara we have good boys and then Bein hazmanim started and everything became hefker and I developed a lot of Anxiety and nerves. Anyone else in the same boat?
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WhatFor
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Sun, Aug 05 2018, 11:06 pm
Are you asking from the perspective of a rosh yeshiva, a bochur, or a parent?
I'm getting bein hazmanim anxiety just reading some of the crazy comments on this message board in recent weeks.
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amother
Seafoam
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 9:47 am
That's why camp was created. I'm serious.
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Benevolence
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 10:07 am
Yes. Everything is out of order or control. Gewald
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flowerpower
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 10:44 am
WhatFor wrote: | Are you asking from the perspective of a rosh yeshiva, a bochur, or a parent?
I'm getting bein hazmanim anxiety just reading some of the crazy comments on this message board in recent weeks. |
What crazy comments did you read? Enlighten me please.
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thunderstorm
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 11:09 am
OP, what do you mean by hefker? I actually know more about my boys coming and going when they have bein hazmanim versus when they are in yeshiva under someone else's supervision.
What's important is to make sure the boys are not bored.
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WhatFor
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 11:24 am
flowerpower wrote: | What crazy comments did you read? Enlighten me please. |
I'm not going to flag them if you haven't noticed them. Take note of the accounts that were just created during bein hazmanim and have a high proportion of extreme and inflammatory comments for a newbie.
Look out for the amother comments that have totally irrelevant and provocative responses on posts (for eg, if someone posts about a Lakewood school and someone else responds with a completely irrelevant response about Jews on food stamps, etc, clearly trying to get a rise out of posters). Or, another hypothetical, the amother who revives a latent thread to blame zex abuse victims for being abused.
Are they all bein hazmanim posters? Probably not, which is why I don't report them. Women can try to rile people up as well. But sometimes I notice a high proportion of inflammatory threads and comments during bein hazmanim, and I've just been feeling it lately.
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flowerpower
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Mon, Aug 06 2018, 11:42 am
WhatFor wrote: | I'm not going to flag them if you haven't noticed them. Take note of the accounts that were just created during bein hazmanim and have a high proportion of extreme and inflammatory comments for a newbie.
Look out for the amother comments that have totally irrelevant and provocative responses on posts (for eg, if someone posts about a Lakewood school and someone else responds with a completely irrelevant response about Jews on food stamps, etc, clearly trying to get a rise out of posters). Or, another hypothetical, the amother who revives a latent thread to blame zex abuse victims for being abused.
Are they all bein hazmanim posters? Probably not, which is why I don't report them. Women can try to rile people up as well. But sometimes I notice a high proportion of inflammatory threads and comments during bein hazmanim, and I've just been feeling it lately. |
Gotcha!!! I agree with you on that part. I thought you meant what mothers write about their kids doing on bein hazmanin
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