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My son becoming hutzpadik please help me fix it



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amother
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Post Mon, Aug 13 2018, 10:48 pm
I love my son he is oldest boy and gets a little carried away with his younger brothers He might push them, potch then or not let them have certain toy that they are wining for. He is 5 years older then his younger brothers.

Then comes his disrespect to me He will purposely repeat annoying phrases in to years even if I ask him to stop, refuse to do as he is told even to take shower or collect his toys. Throws his shoes coat suit bag were ever they land. Not responsible for his paperwork’s or hw sheets. Even for himself he is lazy like if I tell him go get your snacks and put in bag he will just sit and ask me to do it.

What am I doing wrong. Yes he gets hugs and kisses and loads toys gadgets. Food snacks galore
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amother
Lemon


 

Post Mon, Aug 13 2018, 10:54 pm
I taught. The years in which I was warm, warm, warm, the kids loved me but acted up and out of bounds. I learned to be very firm and strong but still warm - and the kids knew and respected their boundaries. From what I'm hearing, your son needs to see that there are firm limits and boundaries - you need to show confidence and strength along with your love.
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imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Aug 13 2018, 10:56 pm
How old is he?

What have you tried so far when he broke your rules or didn't listen?
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amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Mon, Aug 13 2018, 11:01 pm
I would go to an educational consultant who may be able to guide you step by step.
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amother
Copper


 

Post Mon, Aug 13 2018, 11:12 pm
He's becoming huzpadik now? When did it start? Is it a new thing?
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