Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Advanced Search   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Parenting our children -> School age children
The mind of an 8 year old boy



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Thu, Sep 13 2018, 7:54 am
Can someone please help me figure out what's inside my 8 year old sons head. I asked and he didn't have an answer. Yesterday I sent him to school with a wrapped present for a boy because we didn't give him anything by his birthday party. The boy wasn't there, so my son opened the present up. He knew exactly what it was. It was bought before rosh hashana and he kept looking at it until I finally wrapped it motzei yom tov.

When we were going home yesterday he said he opened it. I though he meant a little of the wrapper. This morning, I saw he opened it completely and threw part of the box in the garbage. It was a beyblade and all the parts are there. He said he didn't use it, so that's good. I told him to give it to him like that and tell him he opened it, meaning it's new. I'm so annoyed with him. He didn't have answer when I asked him why he did it. Any ideas?
Back to top

Kumphort




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 13 2018, 7:57 am
Cause he’s 8 and he had a new toy in his bag and the boy he was supposed to give it to wasn’t there. So why shouldn’t he get to use it or show it to his friends.
Typical behavior not sure why your overthinking this
Back to top

imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 13 2018, 8:11 am
Kumphort wrote:
Cause he’s 8 and he had a new toy in his bag and the boy he was supposed to give it to wasn’t there. So why shouldn’t he get to use it or show it to his friends.
Typical behavior not sure why your overthinking this


Exactly.

Your expectations weren't so realistic.

An 8 year old girl might have done what you expected. Might. Not so much an 8 year old boy.

Praise him for not having used it, rewrap, and offer a reward for delivering it without further ado.

The other boy probably could care less about the packaging, anyway. He's a boy.

Vive la difference.
Back to top

amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Thu, Sep 13 2018, 8:21 am
Except he actually has the same exact thing at home. He also opened it up completely, he took it out of the package. It wasn't a box.

Okay, if you say it's normal, that's good. Thanks
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Parenting our children -> School age children

Related Topics Replies Last Post
Can a year round shabos urn be used for pesach?
by amother
3 Yesterday at 11:16 am View last post
by zaq
[ Poll ] How do you feel about Pesach (this year)?
by Cheiny
19 Yesterday at 1:56 am View last post
Weekday shoes for 9 year old girl
by amother
5 Fri, Apr 19 2024, 8:46 am View last post
How many hats for a bar mitzvah boy?
by amother
12 Thu, Apr 18 2024, 7:00 am View last post
My almost 10 year old still wetting her bed
by amother
21 Wed, Apr 17 2024, 5:28 pm View last post