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amother
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Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 7:20 am
This past shabbos we didn't have lechem mishne. I knew I had two challot in the freezer and knew that was enough. We don't normally have a sit down ss. I obviously wasn't thinking and forgot about shabbos lunch lechem mishne. I realized what I did Friday night, after shabbos already started. There was nothing I could do or ask. After shabbos was over, I checked what I should have done, but it was too late. How do I make amends for it?
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Seas




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 8:52 am
For all aveiros the route of teshuva is the same:
charata, viduy, kaballah.

1. Regret not planning ahead properly and fell bad for neglecting the Shabbos.
2. Say, "Hashem, I have sinned against you by not preparing properly for the Shabbos, thus demonstrating that it's not important enough for me."
3. Accept upon yourself in the future to always make a point of checking well ahead of time whether you have all the Shabbos food.
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zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 8:59 am
Prevent such snafus in future by keeping an emergency box of matzah on hand year-round. This will save you not only if you should forget about a Shabbos meal, but also should you have a guest who shows up after you’ve made Motzi or who turns out to be vegan or allergic to eggs and can’t eat your challah.
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amother
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Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 9:08 am
Last I checked, lechem mishna is a minhag. You did not al pi halacha commit an aveira. You need not make tshuva!
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Seas




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 9:10 am
The Kitzzur Shulchan Aruch (halacha 17) writes it's a chiyuv.

http://www.toratemetfreeware.c.....76_L2
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Mommyg8




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 17 2018, 9:14 am
Seas wrote:
The Kitzzur Shulchan Aruch (halacha 17) writes it's a chiyuv.

http://www.toratemetfreeware.c.....76_L2


Are you sure it's a chiyuv for women? My feeling is not.
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