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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 7:23 am
Very eerie story: a chosson and kallah were kvatters at the kallah's nephew's bris. The engagement was later broken. The baby was niftar soon after.
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shabbatiscoming




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 7:26 am
amother wrote:
Very eerie story: a chosson and kallah were kvatters at the kallah's nephew's bris. The engagement was later broken. The baby was niftar soon after.
And???? You think there was some kind of connection? Hashem doesnt work that way.
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amother
Brunette


 

Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 7:38 am
The kallah's father discussed it with his Rav, who apparently did think there might be a connection, as the kallah and her family had broken the shidduch(perhaps not so nicely). The Rav advised the father to give the chosson a large (for them) sum of money and request mechillah again, although both sides had signed shtar mechillahs already. The Rav also advised the chosson to accept the money.
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ShishKabob




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 11:25 am
I've heard of it very often actually, even a divorced guy with his mother.
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elisheva25




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 4:01 pm
amother wrote:
The kallah's father discussed it with his Rav, who apparently did think there might be a connection, as the kallah and her family had broken the shidduch(perhaps not so nicely). The Rav advised the father to give the chosson a large (for them) sum of money and request mechillah again, although both sides had signed shtar mechillahs already. The Rav also advised the chosson to accept the money.


Trying to understand what the issue is, that kvatters should only be a married couple ?
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Rubber Ducky




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jan 24 2019, 5:38 pm
DS#2, who is not yet married, was recently kvatter for my grandson — DS#1 and wonderful DDIL must want DS#2 to get married already!
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