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chestnut
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 Wed, Jun 19 2019, 10:17 pm
| Metukah wrote: | I agree.
I think the fact that you understand her op, shows that her line of thought is maternally bred. You feel it, so off course she does too. Can't call her spoiled. It's you, not her. |
Wow, that's absolutely uncalled for. If the OP were this spoiled, she wouldn't post the question
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chestnut
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Wed, Jun 19 2019, 10:23 pm
| amother [ Bisque ] wrote: | There is no random clothing gemach available to her.
Further - what kind of chinuch is it to say 'we should help those we don't know before those we know - because its emotionally easier? |
Or you can look at it a different way - the receiver won't know who it came from, so won't feel embarrassed when see you or others who know it was your clothing.
Last edited by chestnut on Thu, Jun 20 2019, 9:48 am; edited 1 time in total
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amother
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Thu, Jun 20 2019, 12:47 am
Guys you are being so harsh!
The 12 year old is getting comments all the time about other people wearing her clothing
That IS uncomfortable for her
Whether justified discomfort or not, people are obviously noticing and making a big deal.
Let it slide and work on her chessed and sensitivity in other areas (sounds like she is doing great!)
Hold onto it from another few months until you get it a ride to another community, ship it to another community, hold onto a little longer before passing it on so it's less recognizable.
Pass along less unique recognizable items to this relative
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ROFL
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Thu, Jun 20 2019, 7:15 am
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Is it possible that the girls who are wearing you dd clothing are being made fun of- and you dd is trying to protect them by not having her old clothing worn by them ?
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