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Why didn’t she say thank u?



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amother
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Post Thu, Jul 04 2019, 4:30 pm
This week someone I’m casually acquainted with came over so I could do her a favor and help her work on something,she spent a few hrs here, I gave her a bunch of things, fed her, and then she left and not one thank u for any of it. Is it just lack of manners or does she not appreciate any of what I did? I feel used and resentful.
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imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jul 04 2019, 4:32 pm
Tell her!
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amother
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Post Thu, Jul 04 2019, 4:32 pm
I get it that it doesn't feel good for you. There are so many reasons a person could neglect to say thank you. Try to remind yourself that you get s'char even without her verbal recognition.
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dankbar




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Jul 04 2019, 4:45 pm
why? maybe her mom didnt teach her?

Maybe she feels uncomfortable in having to be on the receiving end like if she got hand me downs from you & feels bad about herself why she cant affors new- or if you helped her with something maybe she feels incompetent

maybe she here only for the taking...
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amother
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Post Thu, Jul 04 2019, 4:45 pm
Thank you. Sorry I forgot. I had a lot on my mind. It really meant a lot to me btw. I hope to be able to return the favor someday.
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