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What do you do if you dd teen is unhappy sleep away in camp



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amother
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Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 11:50 am
Is it good to talk to the head or it will backfire?
Dd is very popular in school but was always with the same group of girls. She is shy in nature so I was worried sending her to camp the first time. We are OOT and most girls their are from New York.
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singleagain




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 11:52 am
I think it would depend on why she is unhappy.
Also to consider... is this her first time away? And... she with friends, or alone at camp?
And how long ago did camp start? Bc the first week or so can be hard adjusting
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amother
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Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 1:24 pm
singleagain wrote:
I think it would depend on why she is unhappy.
Also to consider... is this her first time away? And... she with friends, or alone at camp?
And how long ago did camp start? Bc the first week or so can be hard adjusting

It’s the first week. She went with another girl from her class but not a best friend. It’s the first time in camp. What can I do to help her?
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ra_mom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 1:27 pm
Send her a journal to write down her thoughts. She can have it with her when she calls you on Friday to give you the rundown.
Keep sending emails/faxes each day for the camp to print out and give to her. Write a joke, copy a photo, tell her you love her and to try to enjoy the special acitivies and the vacation you sent her on.
Visiting day is already on Sunday! She can do this and you can too. It must be so hard to hear that she's unhappy! Hug


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FranticFrummie




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 1:28 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
It’s the first week. She went with another girl from her class but not a best friend. It’s the first time in camp. What can I do to help her?


Listen to her, and empathize. "It sounds to me like you're having a hard time getting adjusted. It must be difficult with all of the girls being from another town. Is there anything you can find in common with them?"
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