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Boys finding their privates



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amother
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Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 3:53 pm
I tried to look through to see if this topic has been discussed before but there were just too many threads to sift through.

I know that it’s very normal for little boys (age 6 upwards I’m referring to) to touch their privates on top of their pants- not hands inside pants. But it’s just not pleasant to see, and I try to encourage my son to stop but don’t feel I get anywhere. What do I say to him to explain that it’s not something that is nice for people to see etc..?
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amother
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Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 3:55 pm
It's not tznius to touch your private parts when you're not in private. You don't have to comment every time it happens, though. Only if his hands stay there.
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Zehava




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 6:24 pm
It usually means they need to go to the bathroom IME😏
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amother
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Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 6:41 pm
My 8 year old does the same thing, kinda plays with it but not majorly. Usually when he's tired or grumpy...drives me nuts but I know it's normal. I once told him it's not something we do in public and casually motion for him to move his hands away.
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tsm




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 9:48 pm
They teach in cheder that touching is a big no-no! Even to keep hands in pocket is not allowed.
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giselle




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jul 07 2019, 10:34 pm
tsm wrote:
They teach in cheder that touching is a big no-no! Even to keep hands in pocket is not allowed.

That is most definitely not typical.
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Post Mon, Jul 08 2019, 8:50 am
"do you need the toilets? so don't touch"
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