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Teaching tznius to small girls



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thegiver




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Jul 31 2019, 9:10 pm
My daughter is 5 and not getting that her legs cant be up in the air and the bathroom door needs to be closed etc

How do you teach tznius and make it a positive experience for a little girl?
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pesek zman




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Jul 31 2019, 9:16 pm
This isn’t tznius. It’s modesty.

Explain to her that we call them our private areas for a reason. Because they’re private
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finprof




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Jul 31 2019, 9:21 pm
get her "cartwheel shorts" for under her skirts, its normal!
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aliavi




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 01 2019, 11:33 am
I say that they are called "underwear" because they are supposed to be under something not showing. I say it sweetly and with a smile. I repeat these things often and consistently. I would do something similar with the bathroom. Is she rushing for FOMO?
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amother
Babyblue


 

Post Thu, Aug 01 2019, 5:44 pm
Oy, what am I supposed to do, my daughters 7 & 9 still sit with their legs in the air. I try to make tznius, non confrontation but how many times can I say " it's not ladylike" any ideas?
They don't get it, they freak out if one of my sons walks in while they are getting dressed but have no problem walking naked out if the bathroom to get a towel
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amother
Slategray


 

Post Thu, Aug 01 2019, 6:53 pm
amother [ Babyblue ] wrote:
Oy, what am I supposed to do, my daughters 7 & 9 still sit with their legs in the air. I try to make tznius, non confrontation but how many times can I say " it's not ladylike" any ideas?
They don't get it, they freak out if one of my sons walks in while they are getting dressed but have no problem walking naked out if the bathroom to get a towel

I could have wrote this post I have the same exact thing with my daughter
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amother
Goldenrod


 

Post Thu, Aug 01 2019, 7:28 pm
amother [ Babyblue ] wrote:
Oy, what am I supposed to do, my daughters 7 & 9 still sit with their legs in the air. I try to make tznius, non confrontation but how many times can I say " it's not ladylike" any ideas?
They don't get it, they freak out if one of my sons walks in while they are getting dressed but have no problem walking naked out if the bathroom to get a towel


Very common. Just remind them calmly.
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