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Trying to forgive. Long.
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Post Fri, Oct 11 2019, 9:23 am
amother [ Chartreuse ] wrote:
She can chose to forgive someone even if they don't ask. It would be for her own benefit. (I spend a lot of time thinking about and reading about this subject. I am still waiting for an apology from someone who almost ruined my life and my family's. I would love to be able to forgive her even though she has never apologized but I cannot get there. I greatly admire that OP is so wiling).


I am not so willing; I just feel I should. And as you see, I am struggling. For me, and I suspect for you, the clincher is the person''s impact on our families. That's the part that makes this hard for me. A mother might forgive someone for something they do to her but if someone hurts her child (ren).....
But I am trying.

The main thing for me, as I said, is that even if I forgive him I don't want him anywhere near us.
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Post Fri, Oct 11 2019, 9:32 am
OP, I have nothing of substance to add, but I just want to say that you sound like an amazing person. I'm sorry for all the pain and hardships you endured.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 11 2019, 10:16 am
Metukah wrote:
OP, I have nothing of substance to add, but I just want to say that you sound like an amazing person. I'm sorry for all the pain and hardships you endured.


Thank you.
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