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amother
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Tue, Oct 15 2019, 9:25 pm
I need to separate from my irate enraged husband since he traumatises my youngest who is still home. All the others left.
Seeking clean 1 bedroom with no mice/roaches, etc. In bklyn. Can be a basement if it's clean, bright and pleasant.
I am not contemplating divorce at present.
First need peace and space to think.
He is not violent and will not ever make a scene or threaten anyone.
Please advise.
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amother
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Tue, Oct 15 2019, 9:40 pm
Call Ohel. 718-851-6300. Ask for intake office. They have a shelter where you can there for 2-3 months to help you figure out your life.
Make sure that you have your finically and his finical information figured out.
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amother
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Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:06 pm
I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications.
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amother
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Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:36 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I need to separate from my irate enraged husband since he traumatises my youngest who is still home. All the others left.
Seeking clean 1 bedroom with no mice/roaches, etc. In bklyn. Can be a basement if it's clean, bright and pleasant.
I am not contemplating divorce at present.
First need peace and space to think.
He is not violent and will not ever make a scene or threaten anyone.
Please advise. |
First you say he’s irate and enraged, and traumatized your kids and then you say he’s not violent, won’t ever make a scene or threaten? Somethings wrong with this picture.
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Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:37 pm
amother [ Teal ] wrote: | I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications. |
If they own a home together, the spouse who leaves can be legally considered as abandoning their share of the house.
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amother
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 12:29 am
He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks.
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amother
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 2:32 am
Verbal abuse is a type of domestic violence. Try ohel of they cant help you maybe they'll find someone else who can
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 2:36 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks. |
Verbal abuse is still considered domestic abuse.
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amother
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 3:00 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks. |
I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Verbal outbursts are also a form of abuse. The fact that you want to find a safe spot without them is surely a telling sign is it not?
I wish you much Hatzlacha and clarity!
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 3:58 am
amother [ Teal ] wrote: | I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications. |
I'm pretty sure OP has thought this over, and has come to the conclusion that this is the best course.
Hatzlacha OP! May you find strength, clarity, and healing.
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amother
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Wed, Oct 16 2019, 4:09 pm
thank you to everyone for your supportive caring responses.
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amother
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Sun, Oct 27 2019, 12:44 pm
OHEL is still your best bet. They help the best and verbal issue is enough a reason to qualify. Please call asap. If you have a house together as a lawyer. If you rent just do it
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