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amother
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Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 9:28 pm
I have DH and my Rabbi. And that's it. I have no one else that I can trust completely not to repeat something to others or bring it up later.
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amother
Coral


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 9:30 pm
Actually there is a family member that I would trust more than my dh.
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amother
Salmon


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 9:31 pm
Yes. I have a close friend that I would trust my life. She hates gossip and it doesn’t interest her so I know that anything I tell her stays between me, her and God .!
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amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 9:32 pm
I have several people I trust absolutely, but I do think they would repeat information if they felt it was to my benefit. I think DH, most of my sisters, a few of my SILs, and a close friend or two.

But B"H I don't have many super tip-top secrets that I need to keep, so I haven't really needed to test this.
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naturalmom5




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 9:51 pm
HKBH

That's it ..

Al tivtuchu bndivim
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amother
Teal


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:00 pm
I have a close friend who I trust more than dh
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amother
Burlywood


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:11 pm
Nope! No one
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amother
Ivory


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:15 pm
My dad
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amother
Royalblue


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:17 pm
DH was the one person I fully trusted. But now I don’t trust him either 100% after we began having SB problems and he literally became a different person overnight.
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amother
Lilac


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:18 pm
trusting someone not to repeat information is very different than trusting someone to always have your back no matter what. do you have someone in your life that you know will always be there for you? would walk through fire for you? would do anything in the world for you?

very different than simply trusting that someone wont spread information. lots of people can be discreet and not talk.
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amother
Sienna


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:25 pm
Not a soul, unfortunately. I carry a lot around in my heart and mind and it really affects me.
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gold21




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:27 pm
Yes definitely- not to repeat to others or bring it up later? Yes, my close friends. If I didn't trust them, I wouldn't be friends w them.

Edit- and of course my husband and some family members as well.

There are people in this world who know how to keep private information private. Unfortunately not everyone. Just gotta find the right people.


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amother
Gray


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:29 pm
My kids. Do they count?
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amother
Orange


 

Post Wed, Nov 06 2019, 10:49 pm
My therapist.

I probably have trust issues because no, I don't completely and absolutely trust my parents, DH, friends. If someone gives me their word on something, in the back of my mind I know they will probably, even if unintentionally, not keep it.
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amother
Indigo


 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:00 am
Therapist.
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Librarian




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:03 am
Nope.
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amother
Emerald


 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:23 am
B"H yes -- my daughters.
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honeymoon




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:33 am
G-d and my husband.

And no one else. I was hurt too many times to let myself easily trust again. I still didn't give up though, that one day I will find the one friend whom I can trust with anything. But for now, I carry a lot in my heart.
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amother
Lawngreen


 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:41 am
My DH, almost totally. I'm married less than 2 yrs and the trust keeps getting stronger bH! By our first anniversary, I crossed a busy 2-way street with my eyes shut, relying solely on his guidance (for a surprise location for dinner). That was definitely a huge leap of faith!!!
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amother
Blush


 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2019, 12:54 am
B"H I trust my close friends and my family (not my dh's family) and my Rav. I learned the hard way to be careful who I talk to because there were a few people in my life who used to make up lies about me.
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