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SixOfWands

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 11:24 am

amother [ OP ] wrote:

Ok people
my breathing returned to normal levels
I didn't want to mention it earlier because it hurt too much
but
a relative of mine washed me down

I understood from her

a.its my fault
b.its shameful
c. my daughter will suffer for life

Even if I know this relative is dysfunctional I was thrown over

Thanks to you gals
I'm stabilized
I got some great practical ideas
Not sure how to make her feel better as a teenager between her friends but at least I have a handle on this sort of
whew!

I have no idea what "washed me down" means, but your relatively is seriously bonkers.

Your daughter will need to experiment with different brands of clothings, but there are plenty of brands of dresses and button-down shirts that will look amazing on her. ASOS even has some shirts especially designed for women with fuller busts. See, eg, https://www.asos.com/us/asos-d.....st%22

Bravissimo is a lot more expensive, but also has shirts for larger busts https://www.bravissimo.com/us/.....tops/

Ruchel

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 11:38 am

ouch "contribute to the situation"
I am happy you're not my mom
No, you did nothing except dna
But lucky her, she'll always look slimmer (if she dresses fine for body type)

amother

Rose

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 12:10 pm

I am looking for a great bra store in Brooklyn. Somewhere that has an expert fitter. My daughter is also largely endowed and the local store didn’t offer something that really helped.

Ruchel

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 12:15 pm

Do NOT encourage "covering up".

amother

Teal

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 1:21 pm

She should wear clothing that is modest and fits well, but not try to hide the fact that she has large breasts as though it's some shameful secret.

syrima

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 2:28 pm

my DD is in the same category. Dolman tops are great for her for everyday, but shabbos she prefers a dress. We got some Zara dresses this season that are more 'maternity look" then she adds a belt to get the shape. Also read in a sewing book that for women C cup and above, darts will not do the job for shaping the bust, look for princess seams instead. Hatzlacha!

amother

Mon, Nov 18 2019, 2:32 pm

Seriously ladies
sending virtual hugs to all of you
so grateful that I live in Imamother times and not way back in the day

Ruchel

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 4:26 am

Not on topic: if someone makes you feel bad, don't buy from them.

mommy3b2c

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 7:16 am

SuperWify wrote:

A D isn’t big. It’s a very normal size. It shouldn’t be so hard to find clothes.

This. A D is more to the smaller side. Seriously?? Scratching Head

amother

Teal

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 10:12 am

mommy3b2c wrote:

This. A D is more to the smaller side. Seriously?? Scratching Head

Cup size is relative. A 30D is the cup size of a 36A.

mommy3b2c

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 10:31 am

amother [ Teal ] wrote:

Cup size is relative. A 30D is the cup size of a 36A.

Ok. But on which planet is a D some huge size? I’m a B and I’m considered tiny. A c is even considered very small. How can a D be that huge?

amother

Plum

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 10:34 am

mommy3b2c wrote:

Ok. But on which planet is a D some huge size? I’m a B and I’m considered tiny. A c is even considered very small. How can a D be that huge?

I'm confused too,
I'm a C/D and I'm quite small. Maybe her frame is small so she looks big?

amother

Teal

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 10:42 am

Teens are somewhat smaller than adults.

singleagain

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 11:22 am

Also. When the media says you should all be a size two it doesn't matter that the average American woman is a size 12

amother

Babyblue

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 12:17 pm

I am a size 30 or 32 D or DD depending on brand and I’m very narrow with an hour glass figure. I am also 5’3” and change. If I wear the right bras and the right clothing I actually look very good. But if I wear v necks (even with a shell) or certain kinds of ribbed tops I can look humongous (and misproportioned) And not so tzniyus (thank you Jewish clothing stores for essentially telling me that I looked like a slut when I was like 13 lol...I think I was only a C then) . My sister is 5’7” with a medium frame and also wears a D or DD and she looks small almost. So yes a size D is very relative.

blessedflower

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 2:46 pm

I'm a 30D. I thought I was small until this thread.
Actually I still think I'm small

amother

Teal

Tue, Nov 19 2019, 2:52 pm

mommy3b2c wrote:

Ok. But on which planet is a D some huge size? I’m a B and I’m considered tiny. A c is even considered very small. How can a D be that huge?

Some Ds are bigger than some Gs.

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