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amother
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 3:23 pm
Hi everyone! Im looking for all of your great ideas! Dh is turning 30. Im having a book made with 30 redeemable coupons (hes impossible to buy presents) I have a lot of my own ideas based on things in our marriage that hed love for me to do/wear/have/go with him etc. But im short a few ideas and I was wondering if you all can pitch in! TIA!!
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amother
Taupe
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 3:25 pm
A coupon for a car wash everyone likes a clean car
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yiddishmom
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 3:30 pm
Do you mean coupons to shops or coupons of what you can do for him (exp: movie night together), or both?
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amother
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 3:34 pm
yiddishmom wrote: | Do you mean coupons to shops or coupons of what you can do for him (exp: movie night together), or both? |
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Thanks for asking. Hope its clear now
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Jewishfoodie
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 4:07 pm
A coupon where he gets to pick what you wear for one whole day. (men get creative..)
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yiddishmom
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 5:10 pm
Skip a chore/ responsibility for the day
Breakfast in bed
Back massage
At home movie night with home-made popcorn and lemonde (you prepare together)
His favorite cake/ cookies
Kumzitz together
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amother
Aquamarine
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 5:25 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Hi everyone! Im looking for all of your great ideas! Dh is turning 30. Im having a book made with 30 redeemable coupons (hes impossible to buy presents) I have a lot of my own ideas based on things in our marriage that hed love for me to do/wear/have/go with him etc. But im short a few ideas and I was wondering if you all can pitch in! TIA!! |
Are you seriously looking for "kinky," like lap dances, or letting him tie you up.
Or are you looking for get out of kitchen duty free, nap on Shabbat while I watch the kids' your favorite meal, you agree to do something with him that he enjoys but you don't.
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avrahamama
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 5:26 pm
A day where you don't ask him a single question. Not even how was your day.
A day where he gets to bring his friends over to spend time and you and the kids leave the house.
A day you both meet up for lunch
He picks the movie
You sit together for an hour and tell each other dirty jokes
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amother
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 6:03 pm
amother [ Aquamarine ] wrote: | Are you seriously looking for "kinky," like lap dances, or letting him tie you up.
Or are you looking for get out of kitchen duty free, nap on Shabbat while I watch the kids' your favorite meal, you agree to do something with him that he enjoys but you don't. |
All kinds. There are definitely going to be some se-ual coupons in the book. Hed prob prefer all 30 to be something of that sort haha
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amother
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 6:06 pm
Im getting some really good ideas! Thanks e.o so far!
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amother
Violet
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 6:15 pm
Shower together.
Get out of the house free (he gets to go take a day free when you're home with the kids).
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amother
Ruby
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Tue, Jan 07 2020, 7:15 pm
His favorite dinner or breakfast or snack on a day of his choice
A moonlit walk together
A strip game of his choice
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amother
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Wed, Jan 08 2020, 9:26 am
What I have so far
- relations
- will buy new / wear lingerie of his choice
- try new position /position of his choice
- will get a tan
- will role play a character for him
- will voluntarily twease his shoulder hair (dont ask)
- will happily go to his parents for shabbos
- will go grocery shopping with him (his fav activity)
- will give him a pass to stock up on groceries no questions asked
- dinner date with Chinese food (he loves I dont)
- night in a hotel tog
- get out of an argument free card
- will make banana cake
- allow dh to buy me an outfit/shoes that ill wear
Have about 20 more to go. They are coming to me slowly
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amother
Magenta
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Wed, Jan 08 2020, 9:33 am
I feel there's something offputting with having relations something you can buy... if ur really not in the mood? N if u are does he pay u like a wh0re? Idk but id stick with the little fun details in that area, maybe just me...
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amother
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Wed, Jan 08 2020, 9:47 am
amother [ Magenta ] wrote: | I feel there's something offputting with having relations something you can buy... if ur really not in the mood? N if u are does he pay u like a wh0re? Idk but id stick with the little fun details in that area, maybe just me... |
I can see why that would bother you but in out marriage im the stronger personality, more opinionated etc. Dh is super sweet. He would never ever take advantage... honestly its supposed to be a fun and humorous gift for the guy who has it all. Im sure hell jokingly say he wants to cash out his coupons but the odds of him actually using them are slim.
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Ruchel
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Wed, Jan 08 2020, 9:58 am
relations if for you both.
Not asking any question is no gift
In fact neither is a car wash
I feel like an alien
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amother
Burgundy
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Wed, Jan 08 2020, 10:05 am
Different things work for different people. None of these would be fun for my husband.
Many of the things you wrote would be a big treat for me though. Like he buying me new stuff to wear! Or going to the grocery with him, hotel night , and Chinese dinner!
Enjoy it, sounds fun if you got the type of husband that’ll enjoy it
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amother
Honeydew
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Thu, Jan 09 2020, 2:29 am
OP, what template are you using for the coupon book? I would love to do this for my husband too.
Can you link it? Or does anyone else have an idea?
Thanks.
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amother
Honeydew
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Thu, Jan 09 2020, 6:50 am
amother [ Honeydew ] wrote: | OP, what template are you using for the coupon book? I would love to do this for my husband too.
Can you link it? Or does anyone else have an idea?
Thanks. |
Why the hug
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dankbar
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Thu, Jan 09 2020, 6:57 am
Go on a nice outing together.
You will sew back all buttons that fell off his suits.
Help him organize his stuff.
Do some service for him like take his stuff to cleaners or go to the bank.
Pay the next bill.
look at old photos together
Go off imamother for a certain amount of time & give him the attention instead
Let him take a nap shabbos afternoon while you watch the kids
invite his parents over
You won't nag
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