I’m waiting for today’s miracle

freilich

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:13 am

Wow! No words!! I'm choking up here!

I'm amazed at two things. One of the miracle, never give up. OP sincerely posted that she's simply trying to see how hashem will help her, not if. OP your Emunah is desirable.

Two, mommy3b2c you keep on amazing me!! Your definitely an inspiration of goodness here! And all the imamothers who joined the bandwagon, kol hakuvid!

Mi keamcha yisroel.

amother

Mauve

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:16 am

I wish I was in a place to help you OP, but we’re just eeking by. I wish you hatzlacha and menuchas hanefesh from the love shown to you here.

Can I also say I’m blown away by the chessed that mommy3b2c shows time and time again every time someone needs help or a holiday comes around. May you be blessed with continued success so you can continue helping others with your kind words and financial aid.

amother

Peach

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:23 am

I can help once we add more to my account. We just paid some bills and can't go below.

Ok now I don't want to sound like a nudnik but I will. Stop banking with Chase. I had the worse overdraft fees I'd ever experienced with Chase. It was torture. They looked for every excuse to rob me. I hate that bank so much.

TD Bank has a checking account where you can keep a 100 minimum and your ok. If that helps you at all move to them. Also there are online banks like Ally that have more reasonable fees etc.

Many times I have literally 100 dollars and I'm good. And the one or two times I go under they waive the fee.

If all you do is switch to a more accomodating bank it will reduce your stress. It did for me.

amother

Peach

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:25 am

Also. May HKBH send you tons and tons and buckets of miracles. Of all kinds. A part time job that pays full time salary. With frum working environment. A checking and savings and retirement account full of money for you to support your family and give to others too. And more and more and more

amother

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:27 am

amother [ Peach ] wrote:

Its true, I hate their overdraft fees :-( . I will look into TD, Thank you

amother

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:33 am

amother [ Peach ] wrote:

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!

TwinsMommy

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 10:42 am

I bank with pnc--- I don't know if they are all over but they're here in Cleveland. I often have a bunch of stuff coming out and a bunch of stuff going into my account on the same day but they never charge me overdraft even when in the morning I'm at negative 900 and at night I'm at positive 400. Hatzlacha to you and Hashem should bless you with abundance!

amother

Turquoise

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 11:32 am

I totally know what it's like to be working multiple jobs and still not have money for basics. (And not qualify for any assistance.)

The difference between my situation and yours is that out cc balances are way higher. But good for you if you can avoid getting sucked into that cycle of relying on cc for your daily bread.

One day in about 20 years I won't be paying tuition anymore and then maybe I'll be able to start paying off debt.

amother

Wine

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 1:45 pm

Months with 31 days always seem harder. That extra day waiting for a paycheck can be painful.

I sent you a small amount. I wish it could be more.

Please let us know when you reach your goal.

amother

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 1:47 pm

amother [ Turquoise ] wrote:

Yishuas Hashem Kiharef Ayin! I hope we see Mashiach before that. We should all have strength to get through these super intense times.

amother

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 2:12 pm

I wanted to public thank every person who sent me any amount even the $5 $10 all mean the world to me.

Hashem should bentch you all with Bracha, Parnassah and everything good!

amother

Sapphire

Tue, Jan 28 2020, 11:19 pm

OP, I just want to say that I am very impressed with your willingness to accept help from others. I know many in situations like yours who would never lower themselves to take, and their families suffer as a result.
I once heard a saying, "nobody ever died from hunger, they died from embarrassment."
As hard as it is to give, it's even harder to take and I salute your openness and willingness. And your positive attitude.

amother

Wed, Jan 29 2020, 8:37 am

amother [ Sapphire ] wrote:

You have no idea how hard it is especially because I grew up in a family of big money. embarrassed

But Im just thinking about my kids...

amother

Fri, Jan 31 2020, 8:06 am

amother [ Linen ] wrote:

hi,
just posting here to keep this thread at the top of the list.

Wow. I don’t kno who you are but that’s such a thoughtful way to help