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Giving or Receiving?



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In general, what makes you feel better?
To give  
 83%  [ 79 ]
To receive  
 11%  [ 11 ]
Other  
 5%  [ 5 ]
Total Votes : 95



yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 7:08 am
This is a general question, more of a personality, not each individual situation or person.

What makes you feel better, loving, satisfied, and any other positive adjective, to give or receive?
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yonabets




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 7:13 am
Both!
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amother
Pearl


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 8:17 am
I'm a problem solver so am usually "giving" but it doesnt make me feel good. Neither does receiving. Not understand where feelings come into this.
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singleagain




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 8:18 am
Giving and receiving what?

I prefer to give a physical gift. I'm not great at accepting them.

But... When I get help, I really appreciate it. Like being taken care of.
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amother
Smokey


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 8:21 am
I'm more comfortable giving. I get embarrassed when receiving. Then I get resentful. Not a good dynamic.
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silverlining3




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 8:36 am
I love giving and receiving. Although I'm not great at accepting, I do feel appreciative that someone had me in mind.
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amother
Magenta


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 9:15 am
both
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amother
cornflower


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 9:23 am
Depends on who it is that I'm giving to or getting from.
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BadTichelDay




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 10:07 am
Other - to kvetch, of course!
That makes me feel better.
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amother
Ivory


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 10:10 am
Typically I prefer giving.
But, if it is chocolate, receiving.
Mine all mine, don't expect me to share!
(Just kidding, I am actually a social sweets eater, it's just more fun!)
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amother
Babypink


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 4:49 pm
amother [ Smokey ] wrote:
I'm more comfortable giving. I get embarrassed when receiving. Then I get resentful. Not a good dynamic.


I hear that. Giving makes me feel good, but I feel weird receiving compliments/things, almost like I don't deserve it. What Does that make sense?
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amother
Papaya


 

Post Wed, Apr 22 2020, 5:04 pm
I am a good gift giver. I hate receiving things that aren't something I would buy. It's a waste of money and time.
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cb




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Apr 26 2020, 2:28 am
To op, how do you create a poll?
I tried but don't see an option to create one
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mamma llama




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Apr 26 2020, 2:56 am
cb wrote:
To op, how do you create a poll?
I tried but don't see an option to create one


I'm not OP, but you can only create a poll from a computer. When you start a new thread, the option to add a poll will be right under the submit button.
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