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Machatonim etiquette, their child's wedding



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amother
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Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:21 pm
Chassidish here.

When your machatonim marry off another child, when and how do you gift them?

We gave a gift at the tenoyim. If we're invited for Shabbos Sheva brochos, are we supposed to send something?

What have you given to machatonim when they married off a child?

Also, do you stay till the end of the wedding (after mitzvah tantz)?
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amother
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Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:23 pm
I would send a cake for the Shabbos sheva brachos or Aufruf.
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amother
Babyblue


 

Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:25 pm
mechutunim generally stay till benching. Mitzva tantz is really only immediate family
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yidishmamma




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:32 pm
Some mechutinim stay till their mitvah tanz and then leave
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amother
Indigo


 

Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:35 pm
Come from chuppah stay until around 11ish or end of dancing.
We send flowers or cake plus a gift to engagement party, but that's because we're close. I think otherwise just one is fine.
For wedding we give check to the new couple as wedding gift.
Flowers or cake for aufruf or shabbos Sheva brachos. Nice gesture. Not needed if you don't want to.
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amother
Navy


 

Post Tue, Oct 20 2020, 5:49 pm
My parents send miniatures for the tenoyim and shabbos aufruf/sheva brachos. Non of us received wedding gifts from michetunim. For the wedding they're there from chuppa till towards end of dancing. There are no set rules though. My in laws go to michetunim wedding basically just to give Mazel tov.
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