|
|
|
|
|
Forum
-> Parenting our children
-> School age children
pooki
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 9:48 pm
would you consider sleeping in her room with her for a week or as long as it takes to condition her into sleeping in her own bed? she'll wake up and you'll be there for her... maybe she would just go back to sleep. maybe on an air mattress?
| |
|
Back to top |
0
3
|
amother
Papaya
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 9:56 pm
Curious, why wouldn’t you lock your door?
(That’s about the age I was when my parents gave me a lock on MY door)
| |
|
Back to top |
0
2
|
amother
Amethyst
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:15 pm
This is what attachment parenting is all about. It’s okay, you can make a smooth transition to her chosson from one night to the next when the time comes b’shaah tovah
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
trixx
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:20 pm
amother [ Amethyst ] wrote: | This is what attachment parenting is all about. It’s okay, you can make a smooth transition to her chosson from one night to the next when the time comes b’shaah tovah |
What? No it's not. Neither the Sears' definition of it (which is scientifically bs) or the very incredible and nuanced science of attachment.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
challahchallah
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:21 pm
If the sneaking in is a problem, would you consider hanging bells on your door once you’re going to sleep so that you can address her coming in at the moment?
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
OP
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:22 pm
amother [ Papaya ] wrote: | Curious, why wouldn’t you lock your door?
(That’s about the age I was when my parents gave me a lock on MY door) |
It just doesn’t sit right with me.. not sure I can explain it.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
Ivory
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:22 pm
amother [ Papaya ] wrote: | Curious, why wouldn’t you lock your door?
(That’s about the age I was when my parents gave me a lock on MY door) |
OOC why would an 11 year old need a lock on her door ?
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
OP
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:25 pm
amother [ Ivory ] wrote: | OOC why would an 11 year old need a lock on her door ? |
Actually she has a lock on her own bedroom.. I do think that’s important so that she can feel she has privacy when changing.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
Papaya
|
Tue, Oct 20 2020, 10:54 pm
amother [ Ivory ] wrote: | OOC why would an 11 year old need a lock on her door ? | so her 6 Little siblings don’t walk in on her while she’s getting dressed, talking on the phone, doing homework?
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
Indigo
|
Wed, Oct 21 2020, 12:17 am
Try the calm app. It has loads of sleep stories among other things. I found it really helpful BH.
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
Mothers
|
Wed, Oct 21 2020, 12:22 am
Why wouldn’t you lock your door? Maybe this is a good time to have a conversation about privacy. (You are entitled to yours, and she is old enough to sleep through the night without you . . .)
| |
|
Back to top |
0
0
|
|
Imamother may earn commission when you use our links to make a purchase.
© 2024 Imamother.com - All rights reserved
| |
|
|
|
|
|